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	<title>Comments on: Could Sam Lutfi Lead to the Demise of Britney Spears?  Chilling Details</title>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 06:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dead on, Alexis - Lufti is BPD to a tee.  Britney needs to run, and run fast from him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dead on, Alexis &#8211; Lufti is BPD to a tee.  Britney needs to run, and run fast from him.</p>
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		<title>By: EXCLUSIVE! Sam Lutfi Text Messages</title>
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		<dc:creator>EXCLUSIVE! Sam Lutfi Text Messages</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2008 22:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] also obtained a text message Lutfi sent to Dungey&#8217;s friend Danny Haines, who took a restraining order out against Lutfi after his behavior turned violent. In the text message Lutfi says he hopes [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] also obtained a text message Lutfi sent to Dungey&#8217;s friend Danny Haines, who took a restraining order out against Lutfi after his behavior turned violent. In the text message Lutfi says he hopes [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Mjoy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mjoy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 10:51:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Obviously Lufti had a thing for Danny - couldn&#039;t let him go - they must&#039;ve had a sexual relationship at one time, Danny was ready to move on and Sam wouldn&#039;t - this may put Britney in even greater danger from Sam...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Obviously Lufti had a thing for Danny &#8211; couldn&#8217;t let him go &#8211; they must&#8217;ve had a sexual relationship at one time, Danny was ready to move on and Sam wouldn&#8217;t &#8211; this may put Britney in even greater danger from Sam&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Busy Bee Blogger - What&#8217;s the Buzz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Busy Bee Blogger - What&#8217;s the Buzz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 02:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] The real Sam Lutfi&#8230; DANG! READ IT-B&amp;B [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] The real Sam Lutfi&#8230; DANG! READ IT-B&#38;B [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Alexis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alexis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 00:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is truly frightening.  He sounds like a textbook psychopath.  Psychopaths often show up when a person is weak, fragile, vulnerable.  They start off with intense targeting &#039;to help&#039;, &#039;to be compassionate&#039;, but they are the furthest thing from that.  They are extremely dangerous, especially when the target starts healing, showing signs of independence or of being ready to disengage.  Then, they move to annihilate the target with no remorse.

I recommend Dr. Robert Hare&#039;s book &#039;Without Conscience&#039;.  This is a hallmark study on psychopaths.

I would also explore information on Narcissists, malignant narcissism. Psychopaths are narcissists. I&#039;d also reccomend reading on Borderline Personality Disorder and see how this fits him. Borderline men are very dangerous. They start out very intensely nice and very charming, very interested - and very controlling.  Many women whose husband&#039;s or boyfriends kill them were with Borderlines.  

In this case, the man is too ugly to be the object of desire, so he plays the manager/godfather role.  He would have &#039;worked with Adnan&#039; if Adnan had played the sex/romance role to better help him hold his control position, but Adnan wants all the control too.  It&#039;s a mess.  Britney loves drama, but this is very dangerous.

Unfortunately, it seems to be a battle of the psychopaths between Lufti and Adnan.  Britney is controlled by Lufti and addicted to Adnan.  Lufti is the worse of the two I believe.  He is a very dangerous character and her parents should not stand for his hijaking.  Britney does not need a loony bin, those men around her do.  She certainly needs protection, but from her &#039;protectors&#039;.

It is sad that Adnan plays the &#039;shiek of the desert Valentino&#039; role very well, but proves he is a lowlife by selling off her privacy and relationship with him - even as he conducts it.  Poor Britney.  She seems to truly feel she is worth no better.  That is very sad. Adnan is a smooth con artist and seducer.  He unfortunatly is another narcissist, and as such is incapable of true love. He is just playing for his agenda and his own narcissistic supply.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is truly frightening.  He sounds like a textbook psychopath.  Psychopaths often show up when a person is weak, fragile, vulnerable.  They start off with intense targeting &#8216;to help&#8217;, &#8216;to be compassionate&#8217;, but they are the furthest thing from that.  They are extremely dangerous, especially when the target starts healing, showing signs of independence or of being ready to disengage.  Then, they move to annihilate the target with no remorse.</p>
<p>I recommend Dr. Robert Hare&#8217;s book &#8216;Without Conscience&#8217;.  This is a hallmark study on psychopaths.</p>
<p>I would also explore information on Narcissists, malignant narcissism. Psychopaths are narcissists. I&#8217;d also reccomend reading on Borderline Personality Disorder and see how this fits him. Borderline men are very dangerous. They start out very intensely nice and very charming, very interested &#8211; and very controlling.  Many women whose husband&#8217;s or boyfriends kill them were with Borderlines.  </p>
<p>In this case, the man is too ugly to be the object of desire, so he plays the manager/godfather role.  He would have &#8216;worked with Adnan&#8217; if Adnan had played the sex/romance role to better help him hold his control position, but Adnan wants all the control too.  It&#8217;s a mess.  Britney loves drama, but this is very dangerous.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, it seems to be a battle of the psychopaths between Lufti and Adnan.  Britney is controlled by Lufti and addicted to Adnan.  Lufti is the worse of the two I believe.  He is a very dangerous character and her parents should not stand for his hijaking.  Britney does not need a loony bin, those men around her do.  She certainly needs protection, but from her &#8216;protectors&#8217;.</p>
<p>It is sad that Adnan plays the &#8217;shiek of the desert Valentino&#8217; role very well, but proves he is a lowlife by selling off her privacy and relationship with him &#8211; even as he conducts it.  Poor Britney.  She seems to truly feel she is worth no better.  That is very sad. Adnan is a smooth con artist and seducer.  He unfortunatly is another narcissist, and as such is incapable of true love. He is just playing for his agenda and his own narcissistic supply.</p>
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