He is showing classic Borderline behavior, threatening to kill himself because she is healthy and thriving and winning awards. He only feels powerful when he is controling her and dragging her down in a ‘deathspiral of love’ which is not love at all.

When she had her near fatal overdose, he left her at the hospital to go home and do more drugs. He would have been very relieved if she had died, because this narcissist has great envy of her talent and fame, because he has none, certainly no fame without her. He is the British Kevin Federline. I have no respect for that man.

Amy has won big at the Grammys and deservingly so. She has the Bond themesong offer. She has a new album in the works. She can’t afford to let herself be devoured by this pathetic little narcisist and his pork pie hat. She seems to think no one will ever love her again, but he does not love her, only himself. He is terrified of seeing her healthy and going on to bigger and better things, to survive him, while he would have to go back to a boring colorless life with no photographers.

With narcissists, it’s like drug addicts trying to get their supply. They will do and say anything, but it’s all an act to get what they want. It’s all about them. In the end, the narcissist wants ‘everything’, which leaves nothing for you. This is why relationships with narcissists are so treacherous.