357 Responses to “Jon & Kate Plus 8 Finale: Marital Problems? (Video)”

1. Christina, on March 17th, 2009 at 11:13 am Said:

   I’m so angry people would do this to them . They’re an amazing family & couple , all families have their flaws but this family does not deserve all this drama from the public. I love them & so do millions of families and I wish people wouldn’t pick on them. They have never given anyone a reason to do this to their family. SCREW THE PUBLIC.

2. Susan, on March 17th, 2009 at 6:39 pm Said:

   I sooo agree with Christina, I have watched Joh and Kate and the kids from the beginning. They tried so hard to give their kids everything they could. Due to the show, they were able to do some really great things. And that beautiful house was one of them. I was so happy for them,but I guess some of the public doesn’t see it that way. They are envious of others that are trying to do the best they can in FRONT of the entire U.S. via TV. Bless both of you Joh and Kate ,everyone has problems no matter how bad or how rumered they are. Both of you loved each other very much at one time and probably still do. Hang in there, talk to each other and listen to each other. You CAN make it. I so hope you do. We love you both and the children.
   In Gods love Susan

3. Catrina Moncrief, on March 18th, 2009 at 12:11 am Said:

   The pictures seemed pretty innocent. He just took a pic with some fans and now TLC is using this to boost the shows ratings!

4. Alycia, on March 18th, 2009 at 5:00 am Said:

   After all the speculation, and for all the people who want to stand up for the John Gosselin, the final episode will show that the rumors have a high probability of being true. We all knew it was coming, the show where the marital problems will be brought to light. Thus giving more proof that John, who is on a reality show, and does not claim to be perfect or an angel, is frustrated with marriage to a overly demanding women who loves to embarass him at the drop of a hat, eight children (yes they are adorable, innocent victims, and we all love them,) but there are still 8 young children, a new home, and people with cameras following him where ever he goes. COME ON PEOPLE! Its a fact married men cheat and especially when they realize they are growing older and have not and probably will not live out their “own” dreams. They DO CHEAT not all but many and many have alot less stress than John does. It does NOT make it right but it happens. There is a picture of the man obviouslly drunk, look at his eyes, standing in the middle of two beautiful young women and did we forget he DID move out of his own home? that has been confirmed! They are a normal family who have normal problems. Everybody needs to stop pretending this is not happening. I say we just pray that by the time the kids hear about this their daddy is already back home!

5. Katie, on March 18th, 2009 at 9:22 am Said:

   Christina……..They get paid to do this show. They know their life is now at the click of a remote button to millions and millions of viewers. When you choose to be in the public eye you have to deal with it. Are they really that amazing of a family and couple if they argue and scream in front of their children?!? It’s no wonder that Mady and Cara throw fits all the time because they think it is fine to, even though they are, what, 8 years old or something. Just look into how she treats people, read around. Especially about Aunt Jodi getting paid for the show and her throwing a fit. Also how she treats the crew, I’ve heard some crazy stories from people who use to work behind the scenes.

   I think the situation if true is sad. But they knew what they were getting into by signing up for the show. When anyone is on TV, people become attached, people want to know more. Their business is now the public’s business. They are in a sense giving up some freedoms of privacy by branding themselves on national tv.

   In a way I truly feel bad for Jon, I always have. When I first started watching the show I thought it was awesome, now I can’t hardly sit through it without getting completely annoyed with Kate.

   I think they will work out their issues if they learn to communicate better and more effectively than treating eachother like children.

6. Ava martin, on March 18th, 2009 at 12:18 pm Said:

   Stay Strong both Gosselins!!! Yes fame has there pro’s and con’s. Jon and Kate have to block out the outside world for now and just focuss on them and there family. Jon is very lucky to have Kate. Most woman would not be able to do what she does every day. Yes children are wonderful in every way , but we all know the stress that comes along with taking care of children.Kate is very lucky to have Jon.He seems to be allways by her side trying to make her happy. We all see a wonderful couple, a normal couple that has there ups and downs.Hopefully with some good counseling they will make it together. Me and my husband hope the best for Jon and Kate plus eight!!!

7. Jonny, on March 18th, 2009 at 9:16 pm Said:

   Ahhhhh, how the picture perfect marriage becomes a REALITY!!! This show has been a sham since the beginning. Anyone who believes that Kate doesn’t need therapy is crazy too. She rags on Jon for every little thing. Remember, she is estranged from her parents and where is the rest of her family. Why does no one want to help her raise these kids? Answer– She’s impossible to be around for any length of time and is ALWAYS complaining about her life. Oh yea, but remember….ITS OUR LIFE.

   She’s right about one thing. Without the show, they would be on welfare and nobody would care. Keep exploiting the kids for personal gain. Keep in touch when the show goes off the air. My bet is that something very bad is going to happen to one of the kids and that will be the demise of this “loving relationship”. Watch what kind of an angel she is when the divorce begins to move forward.

   Jon’s ruined for life and the public will support these kids in the end.

   Now on with the hate comments…………

8. Kelsey, on March 18th, 2009 at 9:49 pm Said:

   I agree with Christina! When I heard about this I was absolutely sick for Jon and Kate and their children. I have watched since the beginning and they are an incredible family and have worked very hard to get where they are today. They have definitely worked hard to get where they are they definitely didn’t start out this way! I have prayed every night for this family and only hope they make it through. However, there is going to be a 5th season on May 18th… so I wish the Gosselins the best and they will be in my prayers! I love you guys!

9. Sara, on March 18th, 2009 at 11:04 pm Said:

   Who cares?!?!

   But if it is true then I wouldn’t doubt it because Kate is SUCH a B#*CH.

10. anne, on March 19th, 2009 at 1:27 pm Said:

    listen can’t anyone figure this out? they are doing this so we tune in and see what is actually going on. because people have been watching less and less they had to come with something that would get us going again. it is all fake. there is so much involved with not being together they would never split. think about it people……..

11. Shealee, on March 19th, 2009 at 4:56 pm Said:

    I am very angry at you people that tell lies. They are a inoccent family that have problems! They are not perfect NO ONE is! they do ahve problems, but I believe they will work threw it. People need to stop judging them for a PICTURE or a RUMOR!!!! And it is there business NOT ANYBODY ELSES!!!! Let them deal with it!!!!!!!!!!!!

12. Shawny, on March 19th, 2009 at 5:08 pm Said:

    Yesss Jonny, finally someone to step up and say what the rest of the world is thinking! Kate is an ultimate bitch! If she can’t handle somehting she needs to let go! she is constantly stressing baout what outfits they are wearing and who does what and never lets Jon get a word in EVER — whether or not he’s cheating on her (which is wrong) she needs to lay off the poor guy and Jon needs to grow some balls and put her in her place …i would never let my spouse talk to me that way…i don’t care how much crap is going on or how many kids we have…

13. Jacqueline, on March 19th, 2009 at 5:15 pm Said:

    I think it’s absolutely ridiculous for everyone to be making such a big deal out of this. They need their space. If they were getting a divorce, it’d be absolutely devastating, especially for the kids who are to youg to understand whats going on. And that picture? Really? To me, it looks more like he was posing with fans. And maybe he was at a bar, 3 hours away from home. For all we know, he was there helping a sick or injured friend or family member, and needed to blow off some steam! LEAVE THE GOSSELINS ALONE! tHEY’LL WORK THROUGH IT!!

14. Lori, on March 19th, 2009 at 8:26 pm Said:

    I am so praying for u guys. That is an innocent picture to me and people need to not judge u for that picture and say that you are cheating. The show is awesome every week. My personal opinion and i say this in Christian love as much as you all have fans every week that watch the show i think you need to not have the show and focus on yourselves and the 8 beautiful children in your lives IN YOUR OWN PRIVATE HOME!!!!!!!!!. you have fans that can definately email you when they want to keep up with you and the children which is great and I will be 1 of them. I so support you guys. You are amazing. God Bless You so much will be praying for you always.

15. Shealee, on March 19th, 2009 at 9:42 pm Said:

    This is rediculous. Kate is NOT a bitch. I bet if any of you had 8 kids you would be like that to!!!! My mom gets like that some times. And im her only child! Leave them alone!!!! This is a good family!!! That dont need any bull shit from other people!!!!!!!!!

16. Catherine Boyd, on March 19th, 2009 at 9:48 pm Said:

    How can you say that. They are hardly a perfect family. My little 4 year old boy was just diognosed with brain cancer and all he wanted was to get a letter from them, we live very close to them. They never responded to anything any of our MANY family and friends sent them. Me and my husbnd could care less about them, but it meant alot to my son. They are so fake and out of touch with reality. She is so mean to him and so self centered. It was bound to happen. I hope she gets what she deserves. They have issues to work out obviously. Unfortunatly, it’s in the public eye.

17. Jennifer, on March 20th, 2009 at 8:48 am Said:

    Are you kidding me? The way Kate treats Jon is despicable. I am married and would never dream of speaking to my husband the way she does. Not only is it degrading but it has become awkward to watch. When they’re sitting on the couch doing their discussions he can barely get a word in. She interrupts him, makes him feel like less of a man (which is crazy because he is a WONDERFUL father!) and it’s completely wrong. I hope they stay together but I really hope she changes her horrible attitude or he should leave.

18. Judy, on March 20th, 2009 at 10:22 am Said:

    Check out two photos of him side by side. The guy with the chicks is younger. Shape of face is rounder, hair is curlier. It’s not him…..

19. Charlene, on March 20th, 2009 at 2:04 pm Said:

    the children look soooooo unhappy, not one of them is really smiling and I think it’s Maddy looks down right miserable. poor, poor babies……All the money in the world can’t buy true happiness.

20. Sands, on March 20th, 2009 at 8:48 pm Said:

    I too find t awkward watching and listening to Kate correct,, snap and yell at Jon at every turn.

    I usually have to turn the station and wait for a few minutes for the couch scene to be over with. However, there are times during the show that she gets so over bearing that I have to turn the show off all together!

    I have seen Jon on rare occassions turn and direct his attitude back on her! She seems totally surprised and almost meek. It does seem to work becausse she then shuts up and almost looks as though she realizes she has pushed him too far.

    I think that most people tune in to the show now just to see Kate rip into Jon. The show has lost the first focus of the 6 babies and 2 twins which it was originally meant to surround. Now the show is about watching Jon & Kate and their one spoiled brat (twin girl) have temper tantrums!

    I too like so many other viewers watch it off and on just too see Kate’s temper flare at Jon. And of course waiting to see if they end up divorced due to Kate’s bad temper and possibly Jon finally getting the balls to stand up to her and/or leave her at the door steps of their new and costly home!

    And so the saga continues with, “Whose going to get the last word in first?”

    Jon, don’t leave your family, just use one of those many new rooms in your very new and large home for your own bedroom! You don’t have to be the tradional husband any longer but you need to continue to be a live in dad!

21. Gemma, on March 20th, 2009 at 10:44 pm Said:

    Grow up people ! Can you imagine how hard it is to famous, and have all these pretty young girls throwing themselves at Jon? Its gotta be tempting. It doesn’t matter how much you love your wife, fame messes with your head.
    I’m a fan of the show, and I hope for the best. They should take a break from the spotlight and get back to reality.

22. Anna, on March 21st, 2009 at 8:33 am Said:

    How is that a picture of him cheating? He’s standing there taking a picture. I thought it was going to be some horrible video of him dirty dancing or something. Whoever claimed that this picture is proof that he’s cheating is reading too much into it because I don’t see it. I agree that maybe they should leave the spotlight for a little while (even though I love the show!)

23. Ladybug In TN, on March 21st, 2009 at 10:29 pm Said:

    I watch the show every once and awhile because I do not like the way Kate belittles Jon. He is so kind and does so much for the children. She seems to certainly be the dominant one and has a Type A personality. She also likes the attention of being “the star” of the show, I think.

    From the first time I saw the show, I had the distinct feeling that Jon was hen pecked and they were not happy. Maddy is in need of some therapy sessions and I hope that she and Kate get some help.

    As for the picture, it looks nothing more than fans posing with Jon.
    I don’t like rumors nor speculation. I do think I can have an opinion from my own observation of the couple on the show by their actions. She is definitely not a person I’d seek out to be a friend because of her attitude toward her husband.

    I wish them the best. I hope Jon has a job, too. Heaven only knows we are paying for enough families already with our tax dollars.

24. kathleen, on March 21st, 2009 at 11:02 pm Said:

    The huge difference between the Duggar’s and the Gosselin’s is that the Duggar family is sweet, genuine, and truly happy. Jon & Kate seem overwhelmed, annoyed, pissy, and disrespectful to everyone around them…
    Perhaps I could tolerate them more if they were nicer people. But they’re not, it’s all about the money and how much they can rake in. I winced when I saw how rudely they treated the guy who was giving them background information on the train ride they were being given – all for free, of course. Most of the time they can barely mumble a simple thank-you to people. They act so ‘deserving’, not one bit of humbleness, ever. Tummy-tucks, hair transplants, teeth whitening, trips galore….and what the hell is up with Kate’s hair and fake tan?? Blech…….
    Jon seems the happiest when he’s away snowboarding, Kate seems the happiest when she’s away from her family on her promotional tours = $$$.
    The kids seem happiest when, well, let me think here……
    Now they’ve added two innocent dogs to the mix. Poor dogs, I worry about them.
    Jon & Kate Plus Eight or Jon & Kate Just Take???

25. Amanda, on March 21st, 2009 at 11:08 pm Said:

    He is not cheating on her.
    The big news on the next show is about their new puppies. They are adding to the mix to spice up the show and to please the kids. They are desperately wanting a pet like most children that age do. This can be proven through most of their episodes, especially the ones where they visit places with animals.

    People love gossip and the Gosselin’s are using their fame to aid their family. Getting a larger house for security is a smart idea to both safeguard your financial future with TLC (put the kids through school?). They deserve the happiness and success they work so hard to strive for.

    The rules Kate makes the TLC follow are great. For example, no filming on sundays or no filming in the bedrooms after they moved into the new house to ensure privacy as they grow up and are no longer babies.

    This is obviously a learning process for Kate and Jon. Lets allow them to enjoy this time in their life and no try to bring them down…

26. Diane, on March 22nd, 2009 at 6:57 am Said:

    Look it is like this. I love the show. I think kate does a wondeful job.Just because they are on TV does not mean that everyone needs to speak thier minds weither or not jon is cheating on kate. They do need some kind of private issuse’s and I think this is one of them. They are a famliy just like every family with problems. I think everyone needs to layoff and let them work their own issues’s out without the world getting into it.

27. Karolin, on March 22nd, 2009 at 1:07 pm Said:

    The Final show is just in time. This family needs to become a family instead of a reality show. No one is denying raising the children comes with lots of stress. Kate’s narcissistic behaviors fail. There is no room to parent when you have to be most important. TLC makes sure this is seen week after week.

    Take away all the media! Give this family a chance!!! It is not working for a television show. Who wants to watch a family show hate, while talking love. I would much rather watch the Duggar’s, and Little People Big World. they are amazing families and give hope when faced with challenges in everyday life, love will prevail when there is respect. Kate does not have enough maturity and does not feel a need to treasure what she has, instead we have to listen to what she doesn’t have. Glad it’s off the air!!!

28. Ashley, on March 22nd, 2009 at 2:24 pm Said:

    Ok do you watch when they argue? Kate may act bitchy but Jon is no angel. He argues right back with her. She picks on him, he picks on her and thats what they do. Plus they have had many episodes explaining this is there relationship. So stop calling Kate a bitch because like I said said Jon can act like a jerk when he wants to too so stop feeling so bad for poor Jon. There just human and act like any other married couple.

29. edna,, on March 22nd, 2009 at 4:37 pm Said:

    You people need to mind your busness and let them live! i will miss you joh&kate plus 8. we want more of yall show’s i’miss the kids so much

30. grace, on March 22nd, 2009 at 9:47 pm Said:

    Kate is not a particularly a physically attractive woman, her bearing is almost repulsive, her hairdo is a shambles, her attitude is the ugliest part of her being — the woman will have trouble getting a decent loving man if they do split up.
    Jon on the other hand will have zero difficulty attracting women, he will have thousands seeking him out. He a dream father and husband how the man took the abuse of this witch for this long is a monument to patience.
    Kate is stupid for not recognizing his contributions, but the dumbest mistake of all is her constantly 100% demeaning him in public. No one that loves truly another would do what Kate has done. The woman is a idiot.
    Their children seem very intelligent (due to the oriental gene), but are a bunch of squalling whining undisciplined brats. They are picking up on the lack of the personal discipline of Kate and are acting in a similar selfish manner.
    The TV show SOUP said it best when the host Joel McHale stated: “It’s a show about a man with zero reasons to live”.

    Kate should have been advised that you can stomp on a heart just so many times before you stomp the love out of it. Poor Jon, but then again he should have had a good idea of what she was like before he married her.

31. Deb, on March 23rd, 2009 at 12:01 am Said:

    I agree that Kate is a good mother but needs to (and I have observed them very carefuly too) treat her husband with more respect. He is already doing the best he can to help her and a lot of husband would not even try as hard as he does with that many children all the same ages minus the twin girls. But she does lay into him horribly and I can take a lot but she needs to lay low it almost seems and maybe I am wrong but Kate seemed more down to earth when she had the smaller house then when she moved up to the latest house her attitude had gotten more prissy and nastier. I mean I know she has that sweet side but is more embedded where the nasty attitude comes out more with this latest huge home she has gotten high and mightier acting almost like a different person then she used to be. I can’s explain it but she needs to come off that prissy bossy attitude and be the sweeteer person she used to be she is acting very snooty and not nice at all. It is amazing what a house can do to her but her husband and the kids act fine and the same. I just see it in her only. Correct me if I am wrong but she is getting worse. Definitely she needs to improve her attitude and especially towards he husband wow. Not good at all getting worse over time. Thanks that is all I wanted to comment about.

32. Ashlee, on March 23rd, 2009 at 2:41 am Said:

    Ditto on what Edna said. Jon & Kate are doing the best job given their situation. Thanks for sharing a piece of your lives with us. I hope to see more in future seasons!

33. Sarah, on March 23rd, 2009 at 11:46 am Said:

    I really feel for them right now, every couple goes through ups and downs, let alone one with 8 children and let alone a couple under such scrutiny. They are a great family, yes even though they yell and fight in front of the kids. Would you be any different in their shoes? Those kids know that they are loved. As for this picture, it is ridiculous. Every celebrity male with fan pictures must be cheating!! Get a life!

34. sam, on March 23rd, 2009 at 3:23 pm Said:

    i am so scared to watch the season finale tonight. hope everything will turn out ok!

35. Joy, on March 23rd, 2009 at 5:43 pm Said:

    The total disrespect that Kate shows John is very sad. We now call the show “John hates Kate + 8″
    I personally think they need to cut the cameras and live a more personal life and just put their family first and quit making them a side show.
    If they went off the air tomorrow we would all be just fine. They need to. Kate needs some counselling. She needs to be made to sit and watch herself nonstop for a while and maybe she will see herself the way others and John sees her.
    I think the twin girls behavior is appalling,but unfortunately they are mirroring their mother and the way she acts. I’m very sad for this family and what they are becoming.

36. Tam, on March 23rd, 2009 at 6:03 pm Said:

    I watched this show one time and I was disheartened at the way Kate speaks to Jon. My husband and I have 5 kids with twins on the way. I stay at home, homeschool and my husband works 2 very demanding jobs to support us. Having a large family does not give either spouse the right to abuse and belittle the other. Their children are watching them. I’m not saying I have the perfect marriage but I know for a fact that it is based on mutual love and respect. We both work hard at what we do and we appreciate the work we do to take care of our family. I saw her talk to him like an insignificant gnat at a Toys R Us one time and it made me cringe. That’s was the last episode for me. Sorry but I don’t want to tune in to see a family headed on a path that leads to nowhere. For their children’s sake I do pray that they will resolve their issues and develop a stronger marriage. A strong marriage to me is one of the best gifts that parents can give their children.

37. Jamie, on March 23rd, 2009 at 7:50 pm Said:

    I tell ya, I have enjoyed the show but always twitched when Kate would jump on Jon. Now I can’t even watch the thing. I would hope there was therapy/counseling involved, but whomever said she acts as if she has 9 kids was right. There is no excuse to diss your mate in public. That’s a private matter to work out with each other.

38. Windy Taylor, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:06 pm Said:

    I’ve enjoyed the show since the begining, but feel like most everyone else. Kate doesn’t show Jon enough respect and I feel kinda sorry for the kids. If Kate belittles Jon and slaps him on air, can you imagine what she does when they are off the air. Poor kids, I bet they see and hear all kinds of things. I do hope they work things out overrall they are a nice family and they will need each other more and more as the kids grow into teenagers.

39. Chantelle, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:29 pm Said:

    I agree about her getting worse but if there is trouble in the relationship that may explain the shift in attitude, the newer house could just be a coincidence.
    No relationship is perfect and they all require work, especially when dealing with opposite personalities. I would know, me and my boyfriend are complete opposites and we went to counseling for almost a year to make it work for us. We wanted to work on our communication before we got married or things turned ugly.
    I feel Kate needs to admit that the relationship is a two way street and all the blame can’t be laid on the other person. Countless times I’ve heard her talk about his issues, his emotional stability, and how he conflicts with her plans. Her controlling tendencies and picture of how things should go make it near impossible to live up to her expectations. Her putting him down is a form of abuse and while it may not leave bruises it does damage and leave the other person altered. She retains control over him by putting him down publicly, it shows a lack of respect for her partner and that has to be a cornerstone in the relationship.
    I’m not going to victimize Jon, though, he’s a full grown man capable of making his own decisions. When you change the rules the other person is forced to change how they react. If Jon were to change his reaction, his approach, and be assertive instead of passive Kate would have no choice but to process and deal with this change. I think both need to accept responsibility for their actions, learn from them, move on and try not to keep making the same mistakes over and over again.
    The only way this relationship is doomed to fail is if they stay unchanging. My fear is they will stay together and eventually have a loveless relationship for the sake of the children, which just doesn’t seem fair to the kids.

40. melz, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:32 pm Said:

    I dont know I see everyone sticking up for them but I live near Wernersville and word says Kate is a big snob. My one friend says that Kate goes to the same doc as her and literally walks around with her nose up in the air. I love the show and I thought the “snaping” at jon was just a normal part of the relationship but after all of the things i hear about kate its seriously rediculious.

41. Veronica, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:34 pm Said:

    Ahaha, turns out the whole thing wasn’t even about marital problems! I gave a sigh of relief when I saw that this whole hulla-balu was about Jon’s anger at the rumors. I hate how the media distorts things and rumors start, and also the preview for the season finale episode COMPLETELY took everything out of context, and of course made it seem as if severe conflicts were occuring between Jon and Kate. Yes, we all have our crazy little habits and maybe some of us even pick on our spouses, ALOT, but really do we want to see these people divorce? I surely do not.

42. Linda, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:37 pm Said:

    Glad this is the last episode…the other large family shows more interesting and entertaining. Tired of watching what their kids get to do because of a sponsor.

    Must be tough on Jon not to have a job but manage what his kids income is bringing in. He needs to be with other people working. Kate only seems to care what her kids can bring to her, money, house etc. and that they are quiet and out of her way….therefore now they can hire help.

    Glad they will be off the air.

43. Marie, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:43 pm Said:

    All you guys that have something to say are haters. I would like to see any of you try and handle 8 children, I get stressed out sometime with just 1. They are very gracious people, everytime they get some amazing opportunity, they always use the last miniutes of the show to thank everyone. they have made it very clear on several occasions how grateful and thankful they are. So what if they get to go on trips and get stuff given to them, they deserve it, afterall they do live there life in the public eye and then have to put up with all these hateful comments that people say.I think that kate does an excellent job with her children, and to have 8 children adn to be as organized as she is , is a amazing and exausting. As far as her being greedy and snobby is farfrom the truth, she is very thrifty. She is thrifty, she shops with coupons, waits til things goes on sale, she saves money where she can. I think they are amazing and I hope they come back for another season.

44. carolyn, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:50 pm Said:

    I feel badly for Jon. Kate has embarassed, belitttled, bossed and treated Jon without any respect. On this final show, Kate states she is happy. Of course she is happy. She has it all, a husband who supports her, her kids and now a career. Kate needs to watch Oprah when the conversations are about marriages and how women treat their spouses without dignity.

45. Vicki, on March 23rd, 2009 at 8:52 pm Said:

    I do not feel sorry for Jon or Kate. These people are making a living off of their children. They love the attention, fame and money that the show has brought them. I feel sorry for these poor kids, who are having their childhood paraded on TV so their parents can live the life of “reality star”. I hope this shows goes off the air and these poor kids can live a REAL and NORMAL life for the first time in their lives.

46. NIna, on March 23rd, 2009 at 9:10 pm Said:

    JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE. They are normal people too

47. Audrey, on March 23rd, 2009 at 9:28 pm Said:

    It is disgraceful how Kate emasculates Jon, and people are wondering whether or not their marriage is rocky? A man will take that kind of treatment for just so long, and then it becomes toxic. The sad thing is that Kate will likely never be different – it’s just who she is. She has no respect for people. I also think her ego has swelled, and she has forgotten, much more so than Jon, who she was prior to all this fame. It would be sad if this marriage ended, considering all their children, but they would be better off not being privy to their parents’ dysfunctional dynamics……

48. MIMI, on March 23rd, 2009 at 9:34 pm Said:

    I really think Kate needs to be nicer to Jon in front of the children. Children learn by what they see. Mady should never beable to talk to her parents like she does.You never see kate get on to her about how she talks back to her but will yell at the kids for just being a kid. (like getting dirty).

49. Bunny, on March 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm Said:

    I hope everything turns out well for both of them. Jon & Kate have done a super job with the children. They are smart and well behaved. Have any of you who are critizing the children seen the children on Super Nanny before she teaches the parents how to handle them. Do any of you know what a well behaved child is? If you did you wouldn’t be so negative towards the Gosselins. Good Luck to them.

50. Michelle, on March 23rd, 2009 at 9:54 pm Said:

    I watched Table for Twelve after the season finale – what a polar opposite – and I am having problems watching Jon and Kate now.

    Kate is becoming completely self-centered, and is out to please herself. It wasn’t always like this – what happened to the young mother who was struggling, cutting coupons, and an outing was going to church? It clearly shows what fame and money and greed can do. She is waited on by Jon, who surprisingly hasn’t made a wrong step (at least publicly) until now.

    I will be surprised if they come back for Season 5. Jon hates the life, and the kids are growing up – I compare their family to the Duggars – Michelle never raises her voice, and the kids know their place. And watching Table for Twelve, the way that they all laugh and work together is commendable.

    So Adios, Jon and Kate. Kate – I can’t watch you anymore. Your attitude even towards the animals you have speaks volumes about your personality and who you are.

    Since Jon’s ‘indiscretion’ (cut the guy a break, I would need more than a beer in a bar to get out of Kate’s grip), and Jodi’s revelation about Kate’s attitude and the familial problems, I feel that my continued patronage to this show is putting money into the pockets of two people who got themselves into this situation.

    But in all seriousness, I don’t have much sympathy for Jon either. He’s just as culpable as she is, for letting it all happen.

    Good luck little Gosselins, and hopefully we see none of you in therapy in the future because of your parents’ decision.

51. Jennifer, on March 23rd, 2009 at 9:59 pm Said:

    Shame on TLC for trying to make the finale look like there’s such a big cliffhanger coming. It’s ridiculous. If Jon did have an affair – I wouldn’t blame him. Look at the way Kate treats him on the show. I know they say all the time that “they aren’t perfect” but the way they put the show together always has Kate yelling or putting Jon down in front of the kids. Mady desperately needs a spanking because she’s a spoiled brat and that’s what they are raising her to be.
    At least this might boost ratings and help them them pay for their new expensive home. I wish them all the best but I think Kate needs to be kinder to Jon – OR TLC needs to put in more clips of her being nice to Jon instead of using all of the dramatic clips where she’s screaming or freaking out about something.

52. aja, on March 23rd, 2009 at 10:39 pm Said:

    Just look at her body language in the season finale.
    She is bossy, and I dont know how he put up with her for this long. Yes, I feel for the kids, but I think Kate will have to ask herself….was all this worth it in the end?
    Everything was free, and she pushed it to the max.
    Someone should put a clip together of her constant
    complaints…yelling at john….and the kids. Maybe he should take the kids and let her go. Believe me, there aren’t too many people who would put up with her.

53. Amanda, on March 23rd, 2009 at 10:59 pm Said:

    Kathleen-While I agree that it appears the money issue has become a major driving force behind Jon & Kate plus 8 but the truth is thee is not a one of those of us on this discussion board or any other for that matter that know the truth behind monies paid, etc. I agree Kate seems to ave gotten more “demanding” and extracting attitude towards those around her, it could also very easily be seen by a woman/mother/wife who realizes that when their first episodes appeared it became apparent that ppl watched because of the dynamics of the family (her being the controlling, germaphobic, demanding, and rather short-tempered wife and mother while he was the soft, mild-mannered, hard working and oh so cute husband,then there was the adorable children). She sat and thought about it realizing to keep the interest in the show piqued (plus garner the money that will help to put their children through college which any parent should do) she would have to maintain and portray the same dynamic ppl enjoyed watching in the first place, not to mention the editors and producers o the show have the ability to cut, and edit a show to either place ppl in a good, bad, or indifferent light. People say they are greedy, and undeserving yet I say they are thinking about the fact that they have 8 children that is a combined average of 32 years of diapers, 144 years of clothing, 144 years of basic school, 144 years of basic childcare that can at on break the bank of most parents, and then there s 32 years of upper schooling if each child stops at the Bachelor level, needless to say I am willing to bet most parents would do nearly anything they could to make hat extra buck t help with those bills!
    The point in my directing my comment to you Kathleen is you compare the family to that of the Duggars, ad the factis you could not be further from the reality of the situation. I have personally met the Duggars and while they are very polite they are y no means any happier then the next family nor are they any less happy. If anything they in my eyes could be seen as less than appropriate at itmes. I seems to me the Duggars hide behind a religious view that woman are inferior, higher education is a task woman really do not need through life, they are paid for the show JUST LIKE THE GOSSELINS, the are also given the sam travel opportunities, they have done the tak show circuit, they preach extensively that a woman who does not have children is in fact somehow failing as a wife and a woman and God. The ironic point in this is when Jon and Kate get something for free like a trip they have at least the common decency to say the Globetrotters gave of these tickets and promotional items for free which is really cool, the resort invited us to stay , etc. when the Duggars traveled to California they failed to mention the family that allowed them to stay with them, when thy went to South America, they did not acknowledge that the tribes they saw had a unique culture of their own, but instead pointed out that with God’s love these people could have a great life, rather judgmental don’t a think? The next part is, have you ever noticed that the Duggars rarely reach outside their own world with the kids, why is that? They say they happened to have made some good real estate investments thus can afford the life they lead. And what about the fact they [The Duggars] never have an argument, I am sorry but ifthere is never anything to have an argument about one of two problems exist: 1.)someone in the relationship dos not care enough to argue for anything or 2.) someone in the relationship does not feel enough respect for themselves to make their voice heard or known.

54. lynn, on March 23rd, 2009 at 11:35 pm Said:

    She is a control freak. Of course he is going to leave that nutt case.

55. Debbie, on March 23rd, 2009 at 11:40 pm Said:

    I USED to love this show but with each season it seems like Kate is more concerned about her looks, what she gets for free and where she gets to travel. She was always awful to her husband but has anyone noticed they are hardly ever together anymore. Jon even went on a vacation with Cara alone and Kate took the kids to Seseame Street and the museums alone. In the finale they even admitted how far apart they are. Jon is NOT happy with their lives and she LOVES where they are. Trouble is a brewin!!

56. Cat, on March 23rd, 2009 at 11:57 pm Said:

    Did anyone notice that when Jon and Kate renewed their wedding vows, there were hints then that there was trouble? I just hope for the children’s sake that they can work things out.

57. phyllis, on March 24th, 2009 at 12:01 am Said:

    Kate, is right you now can never go back, what did you think it would be like, just as every other celebrity there is a price to pay. You and Kate should get some marital counceling about the way you address each other, contridict each other and just basically have lost that lovin feeling. It is great to give kids alot of love but just not all of it. Don’t ever think those children are not watching the relationship of the two of you, how you hug, kiss, caress each other in passing, show respect when talking to them, never demeaning them in public, part of your job as a partner is spent making your partner feeel good about theirself and if you both do that, children will learn being a mommy and daddy is not just doing for the kids, it is majority of interaction between the husband and wife, I thought it was odd when jon came home from skiiing with kara, kate only mentioned how she missed cara, never even mentioning jon,or that she hugged and kissed him and missed him. It was so odd, and if they both think this would be odd to show more affection, then they need to practice that portion and they will begin to enjoy a more loving life. Jon should have a mancave and some guys to come and do computer stuff and hang with and kate can have her tine alone as well. Joh you just can’t be in bars kissing on girls and expect no one to notice. silly boy I personally think it is a small price to pay for the simple fact you now live in a million dollar home and can afford to give your family everything and your future is set. Jon, enjoy what you have and stand up once in awhile taking a stand when you are spoken to disrespectly, man up occasionally. Kate, mellow out and take care of your man, Pump him like you do mady,

58. Tiffany, on March 24th, 2009 at 12:06 am Said:

    From watching the final episode, it seems as though Kate dont want to give up the fame. My 2 year old son and I watch the show together. He loves it, and even calls the little kids his “friends”. I use to really enjoy watching the show with him, but now Kate is ruining it for me. I applaud her for being a good mother, but she is a b!tch. It does seem that she is always complaining about how hard she has it with all the kids. Yet, Jon has been the one taking care of them while she is out in LA, and he doesnt complain nearly as much. He has always helped get them dressed, give them baths, serve them meals, but you’d think he did nothing the way she tells it. He clearly wants to live a more private life with his family and she dont.

59. Jodi, on March 24th, 2009 at 12:12 am Said:

    Kate has the same haircut as the cabbage in my fridge!

60. Mariah, on March 24th, 2009 at 1:32 am Said:

    I don’t really care if he cheated or not. I watch the show because the kids are adorable. True they can be whiny but looking at the ages I think they are really good kids. Honestly no parent is perfect and both Jon and Kate have their personality flaws but all in all they are not bad ppl. Its so much easier for us to look at them and see what mistakes they might be making. I can’t wait to see the kids in 10 years

61. connie w, on March 24th, 2009 at 2:19 am Said:

    I wish people could just live and let live, and love people for their imperfections as well as their wonderful qualities, because we all are a mixture of both. Some people love to take something that is good and turn it into a terrible, sorted circus of evil characters when that is just not the case at all. They love the drama of making good things into bad, and that’s what they have tried to do to Jon & Kate. I don’t blame Jon & Kate for being frustrated and angry with the way a lot of people treat them and behave. Shame on all you a-holes who have nothing better to do than to bring good people down, just to make your own pathetic lives look better. JEALOUS!

62. Oriental?, on March 24th, 2009 at 4:15 am Said:

    Off topic:: Grace said the kids are intelligent due to their “oriental” gene.

    There is no such ethnicity called “oriental”. They are part Korean, in case you didn’t know. People who call Asians “oriental” are ignorant and don’t know any better..

    I’m Asian and I suck at math.

    Lose the stereotyping.

    Anyway. Hope the show gets canned someday… If they let it…

63. susan, on March 24th, 2009 at 5:34 am Said:

    Regardless of the picture, to watch the finale was painful. There was NO interaction between the 2 of them during the Globetrotters game. Jon was distant and they both looked awful. Puffy and overmade up…like they had tried to make them look less stressed. The Gosselin’s need to end the show, take themselves out of the public eye and enjoy their lives out of the spotlight.

64. John, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:10 am Said:

    I loved the show at first I am around the same age as Jon and Kate.However I disagree with anyone who say to mind our business.They are the ones who decided to put their personal life out before all the public to see.If he is indeed cheating then he is an idiot for doing it in a place where he can be seen.Knowing how much of a public figure he has become.We are the ones paying for that house by watching that show,and that is why I have stopped.The more we watch the more sponsers they get,the more shows are made,and the more money they get.Kate claims to be a Christian I sure do not see it,if she is.She sure has seemed to have forgotten her Christian values.If you noticed last night on the Season finale people,not the series finale.That their body language was very strange you can tell that something was up.They were in the same chair,but seemed not to be able to get far enough away from each other.

65. kenny w bradford, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:58 am Said:

    From the very beginning of thier show I fell in love with the kids. Jon and Kate have been blessed with these children and I think they are doing a remarkable job in raising them. Sure there are times where stress will effect each one, but for the most part they are both wonderful parents. The only negative part is when Kate railed on Jon for talking over her when she talks. Kate needs to sit down, watch all the episodes and apoligize to Jon. She would constantly do the same when Jon spoke, time after time. Regardless, I have a high level of respect and admiration for both and thier beautiful kids. God Bless your family in the coming years.

66. jack, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:12 am Said:

    IMHO, Jon and Kate are having marital problems and it’s related directly to the show. I think Jon wants to save the marriage by putting an end to the show but Kate will do anything to continue, even if it means divorce.

67. Kristen, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:25 am Said:

    Well they have a show on national TV. Kate has been traveling the country promoting whatever she is promoting [book?] so it’s only obvious that something like this is going to be out in the public… It comes with the job of being in the public eye. Not that I even really care about their personal lives but im sorry, it was bound to happen. The newest shows Kate is just a complete B***h to Jon. She never lets him talk in the interviews, constantly yelling at him and GOD FORBID he accidentally interrupts her. She treats him like one of the children, NOT like her husband.

    I used to watch this show quite a bit but this past season Kate’s whole personality has completely changed. The ‘fame’ has def. gone to her head in more ways then one. It just doesn’t seem like the happy little [well not literally little but you know what I mean] family that used to have fun together. It’s all materialistic now.

    Do you all honestly think this show will last forever? The kids are growing up and more then likely are about to start Kindergarten. What will the show be about then? What will they film when the kids are all at school? Oh that’s right… Kate! I’m not a hater, im not a lover of the show either. I see what I see and well that’s what I see. I can’t imagine taking care of 8 children but lets face it people. They are not the only couple that has that many children… OCTO-MOM ANYONE??? Haha…..

    I think if they truly want to fix their relationship then they need to take a break from the public eye. They need to re-connect as a whole family again because it’s obvious the show is tearing them apart. How many more seasons is it going to take before the divorce papers are thrown on the table?

68. K, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:35 am Said:

    Personally, I think that Jon needs to get a job. The kids are getting older and easier to care for so I think it would make him feel better to be apart of something on his own. I think that their two very different personalities compliment each other. If they were both laid back like Jon, the kids and house would be complete chaos and the kids would walk all over them, he is just a little too laid back. If they were both like Kate, the family would be more like boot camp than a family. Yes, she does need to lay off him sometimes but he needs to help her out more as well. It is just like she always says to him, “when I am freaking out the best thing you can do is ask what can I do to help.” She is right on this, he does need to step up and try to help her and doing so will enable her to start letting go of some of the control she feels she has to have. They are great together they just need to learn how to balance each other out more constructively. I love this show, it always makes me feel great and happy. I think it is wonderful that they have had this opportunity for their family. They can do so much more for their kids than they would have ever been able to do before. No jealousy here like so many others out there. Congrats to their beautiful family.
    Also, I just wanted to add, their children are a direct testament to them and they are beautiful and smart and seem very well behaved for as small as they are and with so many of them. They all have their own personalities and seem to be very happy children so they must be doing something right. I hope there will be a season 5.

69. Jane, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:55 am Said:

    I can tell Jon is going through a man crisis; not knowing what he wants; if he wants a family or wants to chase skirts. He was married very young and also had a family early on. but he got himself into what he is now, a husband and a father, and he shouldn’t forget it! Marriage is a committment between two people, not just one! Don’t give up on each other, Jon and Kate; most important, don’t give up on you children!

70. Katherine, on March 24th, 2009 at 9:07 am Said:

    I found the Jon and Kate Gosselin program by chance. I have thoroughly enjoyed catching up on past episodes between new episodes. My husband and I enjoy the children’s expressions, energy, and their parents’ delight when they see kindness between their children. They openly express gratitude for the gifts (monetary and blessings) they receive and for others to take issue with their fortune seems jealous and unkind to me. That said, I was upset by the finale teaser that showed two clips of parental discord and insinuated that Jon and Kate were having trouble with one another. While I was relieved that the issue was not in the marriage, I thought it unfortunate that the show’s producers, who actually know this family, would betray Jon (who was clearly saying he is uncomfortable with losing his anonymity on days when they are not filming) by falsely hinting that he is questioning his partnership which would fuel rumors for drama-hungry weirdos. The Gosselins are not the Kardashians.

71. ANN, on March 24th, 2009 at 9:15 am Said:

    OMG Im so happy that im not the only one who sits and gets annoyed with Kate. She is demanding, pushy, bossy and that Mady is following right in her footsteps. The rest of the kids also have a fear of getting dirty because god forbid Kate gets upset. I wouldnt blame John one bit if he just walked out on her. She continuously degrades him and treats him like one of the children. Kate should sit down and watch every episode that has been aired and get a good dose of reality…that shes a bossy bitch. She should be thankful that she has been given this opportunity to live in that beautiful home, go travel around the world, buy what ever she damn well pleases, while the rest of us “not so famous” people are struggling. JOHN GROW A PAIR OF BAGGETS AND PUT THAT BOSSY BITCHY WIFE IN HER PLACE.

72. Janet Traverson, on March 24th, 2009 at 10:09 am Said:

    Give me a break people. God has given Kate and Jon 8 wonderful, healthy children and a great life. Kate is not the only person on this earth thats has 8 kids. As we have come to see she has had help since the first time she walked in with those babies. She has a 1.3 million dollar house, someone to help with the kids and a husdand that jumps every time he hears her voice. Her tone to him makes my skin crawl, even her daughter Mady is starting to sound like her. I think they call what she does as verbal abuse. Liten up Kate it all could be gone in a flash, what then.
    As for the dogs, I would of never given her those dogs. Dogs pee and poop thats what they do
    I know that her life is not easy, no one with 8 kids is, but she needs to cahnge her tone. She will be left with no husband, no home and 8 kids to raise by her self.
    I can only hope that she gets some help.
    I love the show but I’m starting to cringe when they show kate.

73. ADRIENE, on March 24th, 2009 at 10:22 am Said:

    Jon and Kate are in it for the money,. Whats with the
    “I have to go on the Allstate website. My Agent said I should look at the website. “Jon, you looked like a sell-out when you said that. Then at the end, when it wsa Jons idea to autograph the wall. Kate, says “Give me the marker” and she goes first. Kate, please get over yourself. I hope there is not a 5th or 6th or 7th season. We are so done.

74. Amy, on March 24th, 2009 at 10:41 am Said:

    Who knows what’s really going on in their marriage.. it’s really no ones business. But, every time I’ve watched this show, she is ripping on this guy for something. On last night’s season finale, he was saying something about the paintings the kids did and she just rolled her eyes like “what an idiot”. She’s always got something rude to say, a condescending remark, etc. She is so abrasive and rude. It’s very telling that you don’t see any family or friends in the picture now like you used to. This woman is a real prize. LOL She likes the notariety that the show has given her (not to mention all the $$$). I think he’s had enough and I really can’t blame him. When I look at him, I can’t believe he’s only 31 years old! God, living with her and 8 kids is aging him so much. He’s my age and I look 17 compared to him. He really needs to shut her down once and for all. Like most bullies, once you stand up to them, they back down. Kate is a real b*!#h!

75. Becky, on March 24th, 2009 at 12:28 pm Said:

    I agree with so, so, so many of the negative comments about Kate. She is definitely 100% pure b*!^h and daughter, Mady, is the mirror image of her mother. Mady is at a young age in which counseling would be beneficial to bettering herself. I see Kate as being in need of MAJOR counseling, and then would she change for the better? I truly doubt it. I am disgusted to see and hear her down grade her husband in just about every episode. How can you do that to someone you love to deeply and unconditionally? Or does she? I admire, respect and love my husband and so many of my actions and words show exactly that. Rarely do I see any of this from Kate to Jon. Kate needs to come to grips that those kids are what made this show; not her. The money made from exposing her kids to the public that has brought her “fame and fortune.”

76. Tammy, on March 24th, 2009 at 12:33 pm Said:

    Yes, Kate’s often over-the-top, but am I the only one who thinks Jon is passive-aggressive? Often the kids need to be corralled and he’s just daydreaming, letting Kate do all of it.
    I like Jon and think he’s a real cutie, but he needs to step up to the plate and accept his responsibilities as father and husband. We don’t always get the lives we’d like.
    Is it possible that’s part of her tension?

77. Michelle, on March 24th, 2009 at 1:30 pm Said:

    I noticed that Jon looked like he bumped his head!! My husband swore it was the lighting, but it looked like something else.

    As to the poster who referred to all of us being ‘a-holes’ with nothing better to do, it has nothing to do with that at all – it ’s the reality of the TV show. Re-read my post about watching the parallels between J&K+8 and Table for 12 or the Duggars. It’s reality man – reality tv in all it’s glory!!

    Besides – you can tell they’re coming off a huge fight about their marital issues – he is OVER accommodating to Kate and wants to please her immensely. He’s more combative usually and doesn’t mind the typical banter of the two.

    I think if they want their family and marriage to survive, as much as I loved watching the show, it needs to be over. Now.

78. Winnie, on March 24th, 2009 at 1:57 pm Said:

    My daughter and I have watched this show together for the past 3 seasons she is 4 and a half years old and is madly in love with Joel. It has been very interesting to watch all of them grow and develope. A few things though… Is Kate bossy, pushy, over bearing, etc…. Sure she is, but according to all we have seen and heard, thats the way she has ALWAYS been, so why change just for the cameras. Secondly, No family is perfect and for those of you out there who beleive that just because they are on TV that they should be happy just for that reason, well Denial isnt just a river in Egypt you know. Lastly,Jon, Kate and those children are all blessed and should be able to be like any other family in america when the cameras are not around. They are awesome wonderful people and we should really give them props for wanting to put themselves out there for the world to see. God Bless you all and i hope there is a 5th season!!!

79. Justbn, on March 24th, 2009 at 2:52 pm Said:

    IF KATE’S NOT TOO TIRED I HOPE SHE READS THIS…I stopped watching a long time ago. I got soo sick of hearing Kate constantly speak about being tired. Occasionally I would watch part of a show to see if it changed. Lord knows she tired, I’m tired, we’re all tired but it would go on and on and on. I don’t want to hear about it the whole show, every show! She started sounding like fingernails on a chalkboard. Gee, I wonder what she think about the other large families on tv where that’s not the main topic? My guess, is the show’s off the air due to lower number of viewers. And hated the way she spoke to her husband!

80. Sara, on March 24th, 2009 at 3:07 pm Said:

    I have watched the show for while and I noticed last night that i have never ever heard anyone in that family utter the words ‘I love you’ not to the kids, not to each other, not anything.

    Correct me if I am wrong, and if you haven’t noticed start listening for it and see if you spot it.

    I think that is pretty sad the words are never uttered, and it is obvious that they love their children but I think it is very important to say it, and remind them every day.

    You never encounter people who are older looking back on their childhood and thinking “my parents and siblings told me that they love me too much” everyone always regrets not saying “I LOVE YOU” enough!

81. kelly, on March 24th, 2009 at 3:13 pm Said:

    Remember Aunt Jodie? Besides Kate not wanting her to be paid by TLC I think there are other reasons as well. Aunt Jodie was genuinely loving, smart, and had her act together…
    And she was a lot prettier too
    Kate felt threatened by her

82. RBN, on March 24th, 2009 at 3:13 pm Said:

    I have no sympathy for these people. They pimp out their kids like product, gobbling up every perk, freebee and luxury afforded by their celebrity status. YES they are celebrities. And now Jon is suddenly taken aback that he has no privacy in public. HELLO!?? That’s what happens when you weekly parade yourself and your family on national TV. This show has moved so far removed from the original premise of the day-to-day challenges and hardships of raising 8 small children to almost soapy, drama and shameless product promotion.

    And in the finale Kate, never ONCE mentioned what’s in the best interests of her children in considering a 5th season. Has anyone ever considered what all this is doing to their development? Kate is self-absorbed and even more absorbed in her own fame. What’s next? Kate with her own Opra-style talk show? I wouldn’t bet against it.

    If this all falls apart the real victims will be the kids… and that’s the real shame.

83. Grace, on March 24th, 2009 at 3:33 pm Said:

    John, seems to be if you rewatch the finale that Jon had his arm around the back of the chair behind her. Doesn’t seem he was trying to be as far away as possible. Some people just aren’t into public displays of affection all the time.He admits he has to work on being an emotional person. Kind of refreshing compared to what we see all over the media. To me they are living like the rest of us, normal, stressful lives. We argue, we fight, we say things we shouldn’t, we don’t sit on the couch and makeout every chance we get….maybe that is why the show is so popular? We see that they aren’t perfect and can relate. When can they be all into each other in public with 8 little kids to protect and keep track of? GO JON AND KATE. Make the decision to continue the show or not together. It IS your life.

84. Alex, on March 24th, 2009 at 4:26 pm Said:

    I just decided to stop watching the show because I decided I did not want to continue paying for Kate’s days at the spas and Banana Republic shirts.

85. Cathy, on March 24th, 2009 at 4:35 pm Said:

    Good Luck to the kids. Divorce is so hard on the little ones.
    Kate needs to wake up and smell the coffee. If I hear her say “organic” whatever one more time. Why would you say it all the time unless you wanted to impress people.
    Good luck Gosselin familiy!!!

86. ollie, on March 24th, 2009 at 4:44 pm Said:

    I have watched these people for the last several years and feel like they are part of my family. As would happen when any family member hurts, I feel so bad for them. I’m not totally convinced that all this ado has to do with infidelity, either real or perceived, I do really feel the pain that Jon shows in his actions and words when Kate comes across with those zingers of hers. Kids, I love you both, but, you need to concentrate on being nicer to each other. Neither of you is perfect and as Fate has determined, you have 8 tiny lives who depend on you for everything, not the least of which is a proper roll model. One thing I can truthfully say is that a barroom is no place for a dedicated Christian father to be no matter how famous he is or for whatever reason. While Christ hung out with sinners, it wasn’t in a saloon. If you need a change of pace or a little advice, the church is where you’ll need to find it for the safety of your family.If I sound judgmental, then look at it scientifically, liquor kills brain cells and doesn’t promote clear thinking. Kate, it is not your personal duty to bring all of Jon’s flaws out like yardsale bargains. Honey, you got lots of junk of your own. While I have the floor, I also want to remind you that we are all only human,you included. I pray for you and your peace and success. You have 8 precious children and I love you all.

87. Cosmo Frog, on March 24th, 2009 at 5:15 pm Said:

    Any one else notice that on the final episode, Jon had his wedding ring on his RIGHT hand? Hmmmmmm…..

88. Becky, on March 24th, 2009 at 5:24 pm Said:

    I have been a fan of Jon and Kate plus 8 for a long time but recently am bothered by the changes in their personalities. They just don’t seem happy. They are rumored to make $75,000 per episode, which has allowed them to live very comfortably, give up their jobs outside the home, and pretty much do whatever they want to do. It seems that fame has come with a high price tag – the old saying that money doesn’t buy happiness has never been truer. The little kids are adorable, it will be interesting to see what happens when they start kindergarten in the fall – what will Jon and Kate do then when all the kids are in school all day. I think the twins are struggling with issues. Jon seems to be having trouble being at home all day, he needs to find something to occupy his time and make him feel good about himself. Kate claims that she has never been happier but I could not be happy if I saw that my husband was struggling with everything surrounding the show and fame. I will be interested to find out if they come back for another season – they kinda left it up in the air.

89. Stephanie, on March 24th, 2009 at 5:41 pm Said:

    It seems most of us HAVE grown to love the entire family. I pray that they work through their issues (which all marriages have). I do think that it appeared that Kate was often hard on John but you have to remember that the cameras aren’t rolling 24 hours a day. None the less, I hope she will stop to think how she is coming across to him in the public eye cause the bottom line is she is in the public eye. She also needs to remember that her actions her kids will have to hear about in school too. I think they would be a great couple to be friends with. They are truely down to earth. We all have our flaws and maybe that is what keeps each of us going back to watch every Monday night. John and Kate have become an extension of all of our families I hope to see a that they are back next season. Can’t wait to see them. Always remember that we are ALL HUMAN….. We all make smart comments to our spouse now and then and we all make mistakes give them a break and if you believe in prayer do what I am doing pray for them!

90. kara, on March 24th, 2009 at 5:56 pm Said:

    I used to love the show until it turned into a big commercial. They are given everything….life is so hard. They chose this life, but if they quit now people will forget about them faster than you would realize and maybe they could focus on their family. Think of those kids who will have to go to school and here all the kids talking. Kate needs to think about that while she can’t seem to give up on fame!!!! and her new found money! Neither one of them are blameless even though Kate seems to yell at Jon and her just quietly rolls his eyes. The season finale made me sad for the kids and what seemed to in store for them. The tension with Jon and Kate was coming through the TV.

91. Lisa, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:01 pm Said:

    Everyone knows that the only BAD publicity is NO publicity. I believe that the viewers have cut back on watching lately because alot of the episodes began to focus on the parents instead of the kids. We’d rather see those 8 little faces and watch them grow up than watch mom and dad argue about the very same things that every set of parents fight about. And whether we like it or not, this is THEIR business….no matter how much we feel like we are entitled to know every little detail of their lives. If we are true fans and want the best for them, then we should ALL back off and give them some privacy. Just for one minute, place yourself in their shoes. How would you feel? I love them and wish them only the best!!

92. kelly, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:06 pm Said:

    I really wouldn’t be at all surprised if the dogs were given the ‘Kate’ boot……unless, of course, TLC hires someone to take care of that aspect as well.

    I truly felt sorry for Jon last night when he was explaining the pressure he was under. He more or less stated that he wasn’t happy at all with this new life of his. Notice how Kate didn’t give a crap about what he said, all she could keep yammering on about was how happy SHE was. Oh yeah, and she LOVES shopping now!!!

93. Melissa, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:21 pm Said:

    I bet you people who said that they were going to spilt up feel real stupid right about now…It was a teaser trailer. Get over it. Stop being so jealous. I grew up in a family of 6 and I understand why Jon and Kate are doing what they are doing. We went without food alot and lived in a car for a while, and you have no idea how hard life is with that many until you have been there. I think their family is awesome from what I see from the show and book. I’ve followed them since the first hour special. That doesn’t mean I know them by any means, as well as all the jealous haters on here don’t know them either. They understand that they are very blessed with what they’ve been given and they are very Thankful and say it on the show, plus they give back. How many fortunate people can you say do the same? I applaude Jon and Kate for their decision on what they are doing. I know it’s hard, but with their strong faith they’ll get through anything. Those children don’t seem in the least bit hurt by the show or the cameras. They both work hard, regardless of what any of you think. Raising that many kids it’s hard in itself, and Kate has clearly stated that if she see’s anything negative to happen to her kids with the show, she will stop it and I believe she will. And I have never once thought that Kate bullied Jon. He understands that she has a very strong ,dominant personality and it doesn’t seem to bother him and I can see that they really love each other. You shouldn’t say hurtful things about her just cause she isn’t like you. I see that the only reason people get on here to say hurtful things about this loving family is because they are extremely jealous that they too can not have the oppurtunities that the Gosselins have. You shouldn’t be envious of them, but thankful that they took a chance and ran with it to make a good life for their children who otherwise might not have gotten even the slighest bit of a chance that they now have. And you all know that if you were in the same situation you would have done the same exact thing. Don’t lie to yourself. I would have as long as my kids were doing well with it, and you can very well see that the Gosselin 8 are fine, so stop all this envious behavior and leave them alone. Maybe you should find the problems in your own life and fix them instead of sticking your nose in someone else’s family thinking you know what is best for them. Don’t hate other’s who are fortuante just becuase you may not be, pray that God will help you and he will in some way or another…

94. Norma, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:29 pm Said:

    Get rid of the 2 dogs. I’ve seen it before, one spouse wants the dogs, the other doesn’t, next thing divorce proceedings. As soon as the dogs are gone, things suddenly got better and 5 years later, the couple is still together and the kids are happy.

95. Ann, on March 24th, 2009 at 6:52 pm Said:

    I believe they have now become celebrities, they have lost their privacy. She thinks no one can parent like her, no matter how much he does she is screaming for him to drop everything and do what she wants. They must be making a ton of money, the house looks very expensive. I can’t imagine anyone moving and having no family to help. You never see anyone from her side, except her brother now and then. I can no longer stand the kids screaming, I’m done with this show.

96. Kaytee, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:07 pm Said:

    all u people who say kate’s a b**** i would like to see u raise 8 kids! and whoever says the new family that’s on now i more interesting please tell me now. all they have that jon and kate don’t is 2 more kids and one of them has ceberal palsey. ir whatever. also i watched that show and hated it, they have no order to do anything. i LOVE how organized kate is. u almost have to be with having that many kids! anyways, jon and kate i love you guys and please come back with a 5th season! u’ll be in my prayers!

97. Allison, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:07 pm Said:

    Can not stand KATE!!!!

98. Kim, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:10 pm Said:

    What a horrible mother she has turned out to be. She wants everyone to do as she demands. Including her HIRED NANNY! Although she wants to refer to the nanny as hired help. P-L-E-A-S-E…so done with that show!

99. Lori, on March 24th, 2009 at 7:59 pm Said:

    First of all, they decided to go public so whatever is said about them is fair game because they put themselves on display! Obviously they want people to watch so we do, and we have opinions. To say that we should mind our own business is unfair. Maybe they should turn off the cameras and mind their own business for a while and stop putting their lives on TV. Second, I think Kate’s a controlling bitch and needs to be taken down a few notches, but Jon is no prize either. I’ve seen her show some real affection to her kids as many times as I’ve seen Jon brush them off. It’s not so one-sided. She’s definitely more of a lunatic than he is but he’s not perfect either. They seem to have nothing in common. I really don’t get what they see (or saw) in each other. Am I jealous of them? Well, I wouldn’t mind a new house and state-of-the-art EVERYTHING, but at the expense of alienating my family and putting my children on display everyday? No, I’m not jealous. Kate may love what she’s doing but some day, this too shall pass and the novelty of her life will wear off and TLC will cancel the show, and then she’ll be like the rest of us- paying bills, doing laundry, cooking, shopping, helping with homework, carpooling, etc. and she’ll look about as glamorous as we all do! For her sake, I hope Jon is still there when the gravy train rolls to a stop.

100. JUDY, on March 24th, 2009 at 8:10 pm Said:

     WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IS THIS, ARE ALL THESE PEOPLE WHO HAVE THESE NEGATIVE REMARKS ABOUT WHAT JON OR KATE SAYS, ARE THEY PARENTS??? LIFE IS HARD AND WE SURE DON’T NEED TO BE SAYING WHAT THEY SHOULD BE DOING, AFTER ALL THERE ARE FEW PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO HAVE THE NUMBER OF CHILDREN THAT THEY DO. THIS IS REALITY TV AND THAT’S JUST WHAT IT IS. GOOD LUCK JON AND KATE

101. Marg, on March 24th, 2009 at 8:38 pm Said:

     Four months ago while watching Jon & Kate with my sister, I was very annoyed with Kate’s attitude towards Jon. I said to my sister, “Kate better back off from being so horrible to Jon, or there could be trouble in Paradise. Kate is quite abusive towards Jon. She never lets him talk. When producer’s ask Jon a question; Kate answers for him. She tells Jon how he feels (i.e. final episode when the producer asked Jon how he feels about his sense of autonomy…Kate answered for him, “he’s frustrated”.) I would be too, Kate. Kate, you will lose him if you do not stop telling him what to do and how to do it. I also see Mattie mimic Kate’s behavior. That little girl is just plain rude and often mean, and self centered. All I’m saying is let Jon parent, he is very good at it and it is clear how much he truly loves his children. Kate, it is important that you spend more time listening and less time talking. It may go a long way and perhaps restore Jon’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Maybe he will reconsider and be able to say, “NO” next time a chick invites him to a frat party. Please work on healing your relationship, and become “partners” in your relationship. If the show in season 5 is “Kate plus 8″ and no Jon…I won’t watch it. Please don’t disappoint your viewers and work on managing your household…yoursleves, and your family…TOGETHER. Thank You!

102. Alison, on March 24th, 2009 at 8:48 pm Said:

     My family-especially my daughter and I used to really enjoy the show. As a wife and mother of 4, I have found the flaring changes in Kate’s personality and focus to be annoying and boring to watch. Notice how church and their spirituality have dropped off the agenda?! In watching last night’s episode, I was appalled by the childrens inability to exhibit any semblance of manners-”Yes ma’am, No ma’am, please and thank you”- very easy to teach but then again Kate’s no longer interested in her husband, her marriage, her children. Kate comes to the Nashville Womens Show next week- wish the whole city would boycott her appearance.

103. Kenz, on March 24th, 2009 at 8:54 pm Said:

     Just leave them alone. Everybody is just making it worse. Whatever happened is between Jon and Kate. NOBODY else.

104. Mary, on March 24th, 2009 at 9:13 pm Said:

     I love this show. I am sorry to hear there may be problems, but the public needs to stay out of it and let Jon and Kate work things out themselves. They have a precious family and I don’t think any of them would be happy apart. I guess when you are in the “spot light” every little detail gets notices, and blown up larger than it really is. I truely wish them the best, and hope to see them back for a new season. I look forward to Monday night’s on TLC with Jon and Kate plus 8.

105. Fondren, on March 24th, 2009 at 9:34 pm Said:

     I think the time has come for them both get what is coming to them .What is really really sad that they are hidden behind to make money .. Have you read her book yet ???? Its all about GOD this and GOD this etc .But she does not say that she charges people for her and jon pic at churchs .. .. That is just sad ..Also have you read aunt jodi statement .hummmm if not look it up .She is a very very reason why people turn against GOD and there faith .Just fake .. And yea where is her Mother and sister at ?? They was in the first part of the book now where are they now ? GOD have mercy on there money Hunry heads .lol.lol.lol. People we need to get this off the air .. She has a brand new house but she is still asking for needs ..

     I really really really feel sorry for them kids .. They need to have a good loving house with loving father and mother ..

106. mary, on March 24th, 2009 at 9:58 pm Said:

     The babies are getting older and thus, not very interesting to watch anymore. I have seen Kate be so angry w/the kids and will yell at them just like any other frustrated mom. However, if Jon yelled at them like Kate does, she has a fit, tells them “don’t pay attention to Daddy, he’s mean”. She really has a lot of nerve. In all honesty, she is the “MARTHA STEWART” of TLC. She even kind of looks like her. When Jon & Cara got back from Utah, Kate said she ran out to the car and was so glad to see Cara that she practically puller her out of the car! What about Jon, was she happy to see him too? No mention of that though. She doesn’t seem to be “in love” w/Jon anymore. She is just MEAN, and has this sense of entitlement. Meaning she’s just entitled to everything…..free. Bet Martha is wondering how she too can have a “litter” of babies. It’s pretty bad now that any woman can get celebrity status just by having a litter of babies. Just look at the Octumom. 14 kids and not a clue.
     Also, it does seem that Kate has now isolated these poor little kids from EVERY family member that WAS involved with them. Poor Aunt Jodi, just because TLC wanted to put her on the payroll, Kate could not handle that. What a witch, thekids loved Aunt Jodi and everyone knows that you can’t have enough family members around kids. That is the true source of love. What about the holidays? The Gosselins are now Separationists, they are removed from everyone except themselves and their film crew. I hope that Churches that want them for speaking engagements will re-think this. They are NOT a good example of what family life should be.
     The little ones are not so little anymore. We loved to watch when Kate was nice and the babies were learning to walk, talk and potty train. What’s left now? Just a bunch of school age kids that are really not that interesting anymore & parents that don’t like each other much anymore.

107. mary ann taylor, on March 24th, 2009 at 10:26 pm Said:

     Kate and Jon
     I love your show and it is a real blessing in this day where there are no Godly values. Please don’t give up and let the media destroy your family. I am praying for strength in your marriage and that you will put God first in your lives. Be strong and follow Him and His ways.
     Sincerely,
     Mary Ann Taylor

108. MAGGIE, on March 25th, 2009 at 12:51 am Said:

     I HAVE WATCHED THIS SHOW SCINCE IT WAS FIRST NAMED SURVIVING TWINS AND SIXTUPLETS AND I REALLY HOPE THEY CAN GET OVER AND PAST THESE DUMB RUMORS!!! THEY BOTH LOOOOVEEE EACH OTHER!!!

109. Carol, on March 25th, 2009 at 3:35 am Said:

     As I’ve watched the episodes from beginning to end, I see such a change in all of them and not for the better.
     Jon has gone from being a man who deeply loved his wife to a man who is afraid of her. Kate has gone from a wife and mother who was all concerned about her family to a woman who is in love with her fame and glamorized lifestyle. The children have gone from being cute and precocious to being really quite bratty. This family is in need of help. I really hope that someone from their church cares about them enough to speak up and tell them that they really need Christian counseling. And I hope that Joh and Kate will listen and do something now. This is clearly a family on the verge of a serious crisis. I really don’t think that the marriage can go on like this. Do they really want a shared custody arrangement? Joh and Kate think about it!

110. Jaime, on March 25th, 2009 at 3:52 am Said:

     When the show first started, I watched it every week and enjoyed a glimpse into a life I couldn’t even begin to imagine! As the years progressed, I continued to love watching the children grow up, but started to wonder why I was spending an hour of my life being irritated, angered and dismayed at the lack of respect shown by Kate towards her husband? I can’t imagine talking to the man I love, the way she does. Nor him putting up with it! Naturally I have no idea what goes on ‘behind the scenes” and we are well aware of networks using the ‘bad’ to gain ratings, but I find it hard to believe that Kate is not the same off the air as she is on!! It has become so irritating that I have stopped watching the show completely. Between Kate and Maddy, and their ignorant, disrespectful attitudes, they have managed to send alot of their previously loyal fans to channel surf for something more entertaining to watch!

111. karen@hotmail.com, on March 25th, 2009 at 8:29 am Said:

     I love this show, and people need to get a life and stop bothering this poor family they do nothing wrong and shouldnt be judged. they are great people and great parents. The bad rumors and comments are getting old, find a better hobbie!

112. Kathy, on March 25th, 2009 at 9:45 am Said:

     I feel sorry for the children. I’m sure they observe and hear a lot of fighting between Jon and Kate that we don’t see. Kate is a total nervous wreck. She yells at Jon and treats him with total disrespect. She hates the children to get dirty. I feel bad for Jon, but on the same note, he should not be going out drinking and partying. I hope they can go to marriage counseling, which for them I think is long overdue and work things out. I was an avid fan of the show at the beginning, and as much as I love watching the children, I have lost interest in the show. I think they better get Mady to a therapist for an attitude change or they are going to have BIG problems when she becomes a teenager.
     Good Luck, Gosselins!

113. Note to Grace who posted on March 22, on March 25th, 2009 at 11:12 am Said:

     To Grace who Posted on March 22:

     I am addressing this once again in the hopes you will see it and your ignorant brain will process it: PEOPLE are ASIAN, THINGS (carpets, vases, etc.) are oriental. “The oriental gene” does not make one necessarily smart or smarter than any other race. Pol Pot was Asian…and he had some very interesting ideas..although few would say he used his “oriental smart gene.” (Aww..don’t know who he is? Try google, baby…) The generals of Japan who bombed Pearl Harbor, therefore bringing the formerly isolationist America into WWII weren’t exactly using their ‘oriental smart gene’ to pull America into the war…in other words, again, PEOPLE are ASIAN. Emphasis on the word PEOPLE.

114. Maureen Labek, on March 25th, 2009 at 12:21 pm Said:

     Has anyone looked at the old pictures of Jon and Kate. She was all over him with love, kisses, hugs, clapping her hands over presents, etc. How did she go from that to this, condescending, revengeful, etc. Could it be that dear old Jon actually showed his true self, when he went to see mommy? He went out and couldn’t control himself. Father of 8 drunk as a skunk, father of 8 laying all over young college girls. Do you ever think about what was said, that when they married he always quit, or lost his job. She probably was the bread winner from the beginning. At first love allowed it, then the 2 kids came along. I bet Jon still had trouble keeping his job, history shows it, but I bet he had no trouble keeping up with his friends for boys night out or boys plus girls(in the bar) night out.
     Maybe that scenerio is more the truth and maybe Kate had to grow up fast, but Jon refused.
     Why does he not have a job now? He doesn’t want to be home. But now he can’t go out and fool around, with out being noticed. Poor boy, maybe this is telling him to grow up, be a real father, be a real husband, for your wife. Give Kate a reason to be proud of you, instead of worrying about her 9 kids. PLEASE!!!!!

115. Jack, on March 25th, 2009 at 12:46 pm Said:

     The show should be titled “Kate plus 9″ considering she treats him like he’s a child.

116. Benoreno, on March 25th, 2009 at 1:28 pm Said:

     Maybe Jon & Kate need to take some time off to work on their marital problems. Clearly, Kate’s happy with things just the way they are and Jon’s not. I used to enjoy this show. But, once it became the freebies show, i.e. look what we got, look where we’re going, look at the fancy vacation we’re taking and our fancy clothes, look at us sitting in box seats, etc, show, it’s not enjoyable. It’s unrealistic for Kate to be making soup for the winter, like they’re on their last dime, in one episode and them moving into a million dollar house in the next episode. Jon & Kate, get some counseling and turn off the cameras. Focus on your relationship, your kids, especially the older ones. Maddie’s a mess and Cara always seems sad.

117. Pat K, on March 25th, 2009 at 1:50 pm Said:

     I have noticed this past season the body language between Jon and Kate. In the interview seat – they could not get further away from each other, indicating to me there was something wrong in their relationship through the entire season. And… if anyone noticed, even at the very end of the final episode, Kate couldn’t even let Jon write on the wall first… she just grabbed the marker away from him to write what she wanted without any regard to what he was going to write. It upset me to see this… She just doesn’t get it !!!! She is sooooo selfish!!!

118. Katie, on March 25th, 2009 at 2:18 pm Said:

     I’ve watched, off and on, since the beginning. This turning point could be a wonderful opportunity to show family counseling for anger management and communication skills, both for the parents and the children (especially the twins).

119. Benny, on March 25th, 2009 at 3:01 pm Said:

     Look wait till monday a new episod will be out just calm down till then! i highly dout there getting deivorced they reniewed there feekin vows for god sake and the kids!

120. kelly, on March 25th, 2009 at 3:02 pm Said:

     I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: the major difference between the Duggar’s and Jon&Kate is that the Duggar’s are gracious and kind.
     Kate Gosselin is just plain mean and you know what they say about mean people – mean people SUCK

121. Anna, on March 25th, 2009 at 4:00 pm Said:

     I felt so sad for John on the last episode. He is clearly very unhappy and his wife does not seem to really care. Even in the interview he seemed really uncomfortable and seemed to be on the verge of tears. She however ordered John to put the picture on the floor, give me the pen….would saying please kill her?
     I have always enjoyed the show and even understood where Kate was coming from to some extent with her controlling, protective and out spoken ways, but in recent episodes it has almost become uncomfortable to watch how she treats John. Sometimes my jaw drops in disbelief after watching how she interacts with him.
     My husband makes mistakes all the time and is not perfect but neither am I and out of love I could NEVER use the tone or berate my own husband the way she does. ESPECIALY in front of others! She really is showing him such a complete lack of respect! If you have a problem speak to him in a mature and respectful way! And if he is speaking it is so rude to correct his grammer, roll your eyes at the camera and make him start over again in his sentence because you did not like a word he used.
     Fortunatly in more recent episodes they are seldom filmed together so maybe I can continue watching the show because I really could not stand to hear the verbal abuse anymore and see the complete lack of regard for someones feelings. It really breaks my heart for the children who are listening to this interaction between their parents, the two people they love the most, and learning that this is an appropriate way to communicate.

122. Alison, on March 25th, 2009 at 5:12 pm Said:

     Hi Kate I am obsessed with your show i now all the kids in order Cara,Maddy,Alexis,Hannah,Aadin,Colin,Leah,Joel. I have a quest are you going to do season 5? please do season 5 or i will cry. If my last name was Marion my name would be Alexis.
     Way did you write on the wall in the set? Is it because you aren’t going to do season 5?

123. Christine, on March 25th, 2009 at 5:14 pm Said:

     Kate berates her husband at every opportunity and Mr. Rolls His Eyes just sits there and well, rolls his eyes.
     The show is boring, pathetic and a waste of an hour. I’d rather watch paint dry.

124. JK+*FAN, on March 25th, 2009 at 5:59 pm Said:

     The reality is that TLC edits the show however they want. Can you imagine what your life would look like on a tv show? Maybe they fight too much or Kate yells too much. Thier kids are mostly well behaved although Maddy could use a talking too sometimes. They obviously all love each other. I wish them the best and hope that whatever decision they choose about continuing the show if based on the best thing for thier family. Good Luck Gosselins!

125. Dot, on March 25th, 2009 at 6:43 pm Said:

     I used to watch regularly but between Kate’s nastiness and Mady’s bratiness, I can’t do it any more. Did anyone see the puss on Mady when Cara was in the limelight at the Harlem Globetrotters game? She was furious!!! The little kids are, for the most part, good kids. Normal, I hope. Kate lets Mady get away with murder. A good swat on the behind for her behavior would be/is in order for her.

126. Nicole King, on March 25th, 2009 at 7:29 pm Said:

     I am just kinda SHOCKED to say the least! I don’t even know what to say as “First of all…” I do think it is VERY possible to read into ANYTHING and also EDIT!! (keep that in mind!) I think all the time…if I was on a show that I could be recorded 24/7 but only 30 min a WEEK makes it to air…WOW!!!! I’d prob look like the WORST wife and mom!! People simply have too many “moments” a day that can show their flaws. Is Kate mean?? YES SHE IS…she has 8 KIDS!!! She is REQUIRED to do whatever it takes to make it work! As they age, she IS calming down, enjoying outings, etc…. I am the same way and I have TWO children…TEN years apart!!! The picture of “John” at the bar…COME ON!!! that is NOT JOHN!!! The US is acting like crazy people who say the racist comment “All Asian people look alike” HELLO!!! If you are THAT dumb…then go on ahead and PRETEND that that picture w/ the 2 chicks is of John…It’s NOT! Does he have some REAL photos out there somehwere??? Perhaps but these are not them! Use your eyes and brains PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!! I am SOOO over it!

     I am saddened because I do indeed think there is some DRAMA brewing but I think it is being encouraged and grown in ridiculous blogs and etc..by RANDOM people that do NOT know them!

     I do miss Jodi?? Is she OK?? Did that REALLY ahpen to her??? I honestly hope not. Surely Kate would be smart and heartful enough to know that she isn;t in this for fame but because she loves the kids. She seems great. If I was her and someone offered to pay me for the SAME thing I had been doing for free?? YES SIR I’d DO IT!!!!!!!!

     I just wish the best and hope and pray for the best. They simply CANNOT separate…TOOOOO many precious babies that NEED their mommy AND daddy’s daily love and care! So I believe they BOTH love their children enough to work through differences and find a middle ground. They WILL work!!!

     Has ANYONE noticed how YOUNG they are??? Most of the time “Fertility” clients are a BIT older (NOT old, ladies!) but they are YOUNG!!!! 32 and 34??????? COME ON!!!!!!!

     The haven’t even been able to have “NORMAL” drama yet! Maybe now that the children are a bit older, they can relax and re-meet each other!!!

     Maybe they just need a break..MEXICO ALLLWAYS does the trick for me and my hubby!!!!

     Good luck if you are reading (which I know you are NOT, but I had to say it!!) and I wish and even more PRAY that GOD himself will bring you through THIS trial exactly like HE has for EVERY other trial you have faced so far!!!

     For TRUE fans, PLEASE keep loving and praying! Life is HARD! For all of us, can;t you honestly see their point of views and troubles? BOTH of them!!! Stay encouraging and TRUE!

     There is nothing in this world like your family and TRUE LOYAL friends!!!

     I wish them the BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

127. Robin, on March 25th, 2009 at 7:52 pm Said:

     In this time of economic hardship…people losing their jobs and their homes…doesn’t TLC know it’s revolting to hear Kate say they “deserve” all they have? What about all those hard working families (who are struggling to keep their REAL jobs)..are they any less deserving?

     The show is not “work”…getting things handed to you is not “stressful”…and I am sick of the freebie- money grubbing- gimme gimme-look what we have Kate trying to convince us how “difficult” her life is. This show needs to go away.

128. Sue, on March 25th, 2009 at 8:37 pm Said:

     I use to watch the show each week but the more Kate treated Jon worse than a dog yelling at him was sicking. Mattie is taking after her mom if she doesn’t get her way here comes the fit and yelling with no respect for adults.

     My husband watched only once and she was yelling at him on an outing and he said if you ever talked to me like that me and the kids would be gone.

     I hope they take it off the air it is teaching the world that large families that you can’t afford are good and men are not worth anything but put downs. A marriage is equal and respect of each other and I have 39 years with my husband and have never talked to him like dirt, or him to me like dirt. RESPECT

129. barbie, on March 25th, 2009 at 9:25 pm Said:

     Kate’s too high strung for her own good and John’s been an absolute saint to put up with the way she acts. It’s not about having eight kids because I’ve known lots of women with six, seven, eight and even ten kids; and none of them were like that. It’s called not being so anal and controlling your temper, and Kate obviously has no clue how to do so. The poor man is obviously miserable and she doesn’t seem to care. On the final show she acted as if his misery was something he could simply take off and toss in the laundry basket, and if she had her way that’s what he would do. I hope, for all their sakes, that they don’t do any more full seasons and maybe only do a show every few years so that those of us who love the kids can see how they’re doing. All of them need a break from camera time so they can try to live something resembling a normal life.

130. missy, on March 25th, 2009 at 9:31 pm Said:

     I was a upset when I heard that that this couple was having problems but it suit kate right because she is over bearing and joh can”t do anything right in her eye sight. Kate treat Jon like he is one of her children instead her husband.

131. lana, on March 26th, 2009 at 12:02 am Said:

     Does Kate ever get tired of being so disrespectful. Doesn’t she see it??? The show was cute but it has gotten to the point where Jon and the children’s happiness seem to be compromised. Yes, because of the show they have had the opportunity to do many things…but they no longer appear to be happy.

     The children feed off her bad energy.

     Kate needs to spend some time with the Duggar’s.

     Kate may enjoy doing the show, but she’s lost so much. What’s it going to take??????

132. Gina, on March 26th, 2009 at 12:38 am Said:

     Hey – I hope you dont listen to the nay sayers. Their are negative people everywhere, just waiting to pounce. I love your show-hey no one is perfect. I have been married for 25 years to my high school sweetheart and there are days that are not great. I love him and we work things out and learn daily. You will also work things out. There will be compromise for the both of you and you will need to HEAR each other. You have a wonderful ethic and goal for your children are number one. That is the way it should be. I hope you will not let all the “stuff” ruin what clearly is a very big blessing for the all of you.

133. dawn, on March 26th, 2009 at 12:45 am Said:

     Kate is incredibly difficult and self-centered. Although, they both have gotten greedy and selfish. They claim to follow the path of the Lord, but they are so into themselves it is shameful. Their older daughters’ behaviors resemble that of spoiled and indulged rich kids. While I don’t know how much they get for exploiting their family, I think they better examine whether the tummy tuck, make-overs, and freebies are worth the dissolution of their marriage and family, and perhaps their relationship with God.

134. Shawna, on March 26th, 2009 at 8:42 am Said:

     I’ve watched this show from the beginning.

     First – I’ve said a long time ago that Kate was going to drive Jon away… Even in the early part of the shows airing – she was rude, crude and sometimes just plain “mean”. I think Jon is tenderhearted, and did a lot to appease her. Now he may be over it… just as I am. He LOVES his children… and I believe he has done his best to raise them in less than ideal circumstances.

     I am sure that he and Kate both thought filming them would be a great idea… and it was in the beginning… But there should have been a time limit set – to allow the family to have a “normal” life.

     Second – I ‘ve also said for a long time that Kara is getting the short end of the stick… She is a very gentle, reserved child, who often “fades” into the background… while Maddie soaks up the spotlight. The filming crew lends itself towards Maddie – as she is a drama queen. Kara, on the other hand, is often ignored, and sometimes even looks “forlorn”. She steps out of Maddie’s way, when Maddie doesn’t push her out. Maybe Kara too – would like to ditch the cameras.

     I have often wondered what this family will do once the cameras go away… The sextuplets will adjust quickly, I would think. Still, all of the children have a “warped” sense of “reality”… from spending all of this time on a “television” show… being handed trips and marketing “perks” left and right.

     Having an annual show that updates “where they are now” might be fun for everyone… but the constant intrusion of outside influences cannot be healthy for the family long-term… And – the fact that Jon and Kate are so obviously unhappy makes it all the worse. You could see this coming a mile away…

     If Kate thinks that continually filming the family will protect her from the reality of her damaged marriage – she’s got another thing coming. They need counseling – and bad…

     And – when Jon finally says “enough is enough”… Kate had better watch herself or she’s going to see him on the newest cycle of “The Bachelor”.

135. Wanda, on March 26th, 2009 at 9:13 am Said:

     Jon said he was tired of this whole show thingy and I am with him 100% , the Poor guy wants out and he should take back his life and do so,, If Kate wants to keep acting like a fool then so be it. She should only do the show when Jon isn’t home.. LET HIM HAVE HIS LIFE BACK NOW!! THE KIDS TOO!

136. Linda, on March 26th, 2009 at 9:29 am Said:

     My parents raised 8 kids. My Mom was never a B****.
     She never made my dad feel less than what he was.Kate is a VERY controling person. It always has to be her way. And if it isn’t there is hell to pay. Kate & Maddy both need counseling. Jon grow up and staart taking some control.

137. Pat K, on March 26th, 2009 at 11:54 am Said:

     Geez, with the show coming to an obvious end, I hope they can afford that huge house and the upkeep on it. Plus keep up with the various expenses of 8 children, their medical and psychological treatments and their future education!!!

138. judy pierce, on March 26th, 2009 at 12:13 pm Said:

     i love the show yes they will be back again its a hit show love you jon and kate and your eight wonderful kids

139. Bev, on March 26th, 2009 at 12:19 pm Said:

     Grace, “Their children seem very intelligent (due to the oriental gene), but are a bunch of squalling whining undisciplined brats. ”

     Excuse me??? First of all, the word “oriental” is offensive to use, and second of all… simply having a gene does not make anyone intelligent.

     Yes, I am asian, and am not easily offended, but seriously???

140. Susie, on March 26th, 2009 at 1:27 pm Said:

     Look regardless of whether or not htey knew what would happen when their show aired it has…so wither put up with it or end it……as far as Kate…no one is going to say that what she does and says to Jon is nothing more than abuse…if he is it to her there would be tons of mail saying so…she is a bitch pure and simple……I would have had my husband tell me to blank off and walk out the door if I ever spoke to him that way….who does she think she is…..it should be embarrassing to her to see commentss about what a bitch she is but I am sure that she pays little attention…she is so full of herself she probably just doesnt care….Jon needs to get some balls and counselling to deal with her….it is pathetic….surely to God someone could say something to one of them….it is too embarrassing to watch….and dont get me started on Mady…that kid needs a kick in the butt….spoiled little snot…..just like her mother!

141. Rita, on March 26th, 2009 at 1:32 pm Said:

     I think…after reading most of the comments here…that I tend to agree with Robin from last night…this show needs to just go away. No blaming or finger pointing. And I sincerely wish them the best. This family needs to rest……not vacation……rest. God Bless to all of you !

142. kelly, on March 26th, 2009 at 1:37 pm Said:

     If Kate treated those dogs the same way she treated her husband I bet Animal Control would intervene

143. Karri, on March 26th, 2009 at 1:44 pm Said:

     I hope the rumors are not true about Jon cheating on Kate but the final episode makes you wonder. I do feel bad for them. They just wanted to document there childrens lives and the media has a field day with there lives. That is not far. I hope there is a 5th season. Everyone has problems and they will work through the problems. Or at least I hope they do for the sake of the children.

144. David Franklin, on March 26th, 2009 at 2:02 pm Said:

     I think your show is great it shows how the kids are brought up and I think you both are doing a great job on raising your kids.. No doubt you both love your kids but I think you both need to concentrate on loving yourselves and Kate you need to stop bossing Jon around too much, seems everyone can see that. I would like to see you both work things out and perhaps that show has made it too difficult to get along. The show might be more stress than it is worth. But for the kids sake try to work it out cause you both have wonderful kids and I know I enjoy seeing them grow up.. My mom is a fan of your show also. Hope you all work things out and go get some professional help to save your marriage….

145. Molly, on March 26th, 2009 at 2:12 pm Said:

     Okay everyone that is hating on them , please stop pissing and look harder! Wouldn’t you be stressed when you have 8 young kids who most of the time or screaming? They say in MANY episodes we try our best but this is what we’re like, now seriously most of you people aren’t putting yourself in there shoes. She may be rude to Jon but that doesn’t make her a b&^ch, I know a lot of couples who fight all the time but they still love each other like any other family. Now on to my next point. . the picture. ARE YOU SERIOUSE?! Its one picture, that he took with new fans. That obviously is a resturant as well as a bar and he was living with his mother cause she broke her toe and her husband was on a trip. It even said that in a episode! Don’t you listen or do you just watch so later on you can post gossip and “Kate’s a b#*ch” all over the internet? I am a big fan and just because they don’t respond to your mail doesn’t make them rude, they are busy and normally when you have eight kids you don’t get much time on the computer. I love the show and I love everyone involved with and in the show. I also find Table For 12 and 18 Kids And Counting are just copies on Jon and Kate. Cause there kids are not cute by FAR while the Gosselins are adorable. So I hope that the show continues for a season 5 because that show has grown to be apart of me! I hope for the best!

146. Shelly, on March 26th, 2009 at 2:45 pm Said:

     I really love your show, your kids are all so precious!

     Your Season Finale made me kind of sad though. It is so obvious that Jon needs a break from it all and I really believe that a lot of prayer should go into the decision of doing a Season Five! I love the show, but more than I love the show I love to see you both happy in your marriage and don’t want to see any serious problems – all marriages have their share of probs!!
     With God all things are possible. Maybe you could just do two episodes a year or something so viewers can still enjoy the show, but wouldn’t be so much strain on the family.

     I will sincerely be praying for you and your family. I pray that you will seek God and listen to God to guide you in this very important decision.

147. M Mill, on March 26th, 2009 at 5:08 pm Said:

     Regardless of the nature of Jon and Kate’s problems, it is obvious that Kate is happy with the stardom that she has attained and does not see or care how exploited the family has become. Unfortunately along with that stardom comes invasion of privacy and a person’s life seems to belong to the public. The instant fame seems to have Jon rethinking his choices, but Kate loves the limelight. They created it so now they have to live with the choices. It will be interesting how this unfolds. Jon, I dont blame you for wanting pre Jon and Kate plus 8 life back.

148. Sherrill, on March 26th, 2009 at 6:02 pm Said:

     KATE, ARE YOU LISTENING? Does’t it make you wonder why most of the comments are negitive in nature towards YOU and your BRATTY KID, MADY?
     Get rid of that REDICULOUS HAIR DO, speak to your husband with a little respect, show Mady who is boss, and then mabe you might match up to the other large famiy TV shows who (unlike Jon and Kate + )are a pleasure to watch.It might help you to know that YOU are not the reason why people tune in to watch your program. Get over it, from another mother of eight.

149. rachel, on March 26th, 2009 at 6:20 pm Said:

     dear jon and kate ,

     i loved ur family and how you guys had to go through the problems that u had to go thruogh. I’m an only child and sometimes it gets preety boraing .

     your show is so awsome and thats kinda the only reason why i watch t.v. I cant wait till season 5

150. PiquePlace, on March 26th, 2009 at 6:35 pm Said:

     Anyone who would feel sorry for the Gosselins receiving public criticism is a fool. They went on a national television show for cryin’ out loud. If they couldn’t handle the attention, they shouldn’t have invited it by going on the show.

151. Grandma, on March 26th, 2009 at 9:05 pm Said:

     As a widow, I have watched Jon &Kate +8 for quite a while, and found it fascinating at first. However, i have to agree that the continual belittling of Jon is very obvious and annoying, as well as the continual temper tantrums especially of Mady. There seems to be a lot of jealousy between the twins and the other children. Kate esp. needs to take notice before her “dream” slips away. Jon has the better disposition. Frankly, I also find her continual showing of her legs while in the seat together distracting and annoying. Maybe noone else noticed, but I was taught to sit like a lady.
     The children seem to be uncontrolled, even with time-outs. (Sorry, but I’m of the old school, where the rod wasn’t spared, but I needed it! and believe children do too, but in this day, there’s always the fear of being charged with “child abuse.” I didn’t hurt me any, but I learned how to behave. That’s another story, but it is part of my Christian values, and I thank God for them. I loved my parents dearly, and they loved me, even though they were not perfect. ( I’m sure that Jon and Kate or even the Duggars would be shut down immediately with the attitudes that are prevalent today against spanking, but my five siblings and I learned to behave and we were better off for it, as most of the oldtimers will admit!) I’m glad I was from the other “Depression” area.
     I believe that Jon and Kate need to take “time out” to sort out their feelings for each other and for their precious family before it is too late. They have a lot to offer. God has blessed them with a fine family and they will have to give account to Him. I am earnestly praying for them and wish them well.

152. Normal in Camarillo, on March 27th, 2009 at 12:38 am Said:

     My husband and I have watched all the shows from the start. We adore the kids and I like Kate’s moxi. While he may not agree with this, I have to write it: Jon does not deserve Kate. She is strong and dominating – this is true. But it is always wuss boys like Jon that fall for women like that. I like that she admits her flaws and can take criticism. Jon does not seem that strong however. Now that folks are criticizing her flaws and the way she dominates Jon, HIS self-esteem seems to be wounded and he is acting out like one of his children. But, no matter what, he should be defending her and standing up for the woman he married. Instead, he rolls his eyes, makes nasty comments and runs around in bars. Be a real man Jon – be strong and make your marriage work. You made a commitment and a real man would honor his marriage and his wife. I watched an interview with Jon recently and when he was questioned about the criticism towards Kate, he merely changed the subject to talk about himself. That was a disappointment. I was hoping to hear him defend her. Regardless, I hope this all is not true regarding his cheating and abandonment. I wouldn’t say i am surprised though. Weak people with low self-esteem behave like that – and that is exactly the person that Jon seems to be at the moment unfortunately. I just feel sorry for Kate and especially the kids.

153. Michelle, on March 27th, 2009 at 8:23 am Said:

     #
     PiquePlace, on March 26th, 2009 at 6:35 pm Said:

     Anyone who would feel sorry for the Gosselins receiving public criticism is a fool. They went on a national television show for cryin’ out loud. If they couldn’t handle the attention, they shouldn’t have invited it by going on the show.

     AMEN!! I keep coming back to that. Those of you who criticize our comments towards them need to remember that THEY put their life on display and they deserve it. And to the other poster who thought that all of us making negative comments aren’t parents – I am. And I would NEVER single out my children like she does with Maddy and Hannah and Leah.

154. Nichole, on March 27th, 2009 at 11:25 am Said:

     I have tried to keep up with the show since it started. I do really enjoy it, and think that they are a great family. I have heard the stipulations of Jon cheating, and if he did, that is something that needs to be delt with between him and his wife. I believe in freedom of speech, and that everyone is entitled to thier own opinions, but stop and think if your opinion is necessary to the situation, or is just going to he hateful. I know they made the decision to be in the public eye, but put your relationship in their shoes, would you want everyone talking and placing opinions on things that happen between you and your spouse?Oh and to all of you who are commenting on Mady’s behavior, and saying she needs therapy, she is just a child, although she may have occasional outbursts, she is normal, and it is wrong to say negative things about her. What if that was your child, and people all over the world were saying he/she needed therapy, you would be pissed. I guess what I am saying is leave the kids out of this.

     As for Kates personality, she does go overboard on occasion, and should probably watch the tone she takes with her husband. I do understand, with my experience in teaching, that things need to be routine, and scheduled in order for things to run smoothly with multiple children, any small glitch can send things spirling out of control. I think that Kates behavior is just her way of keeping things under control, and the only person who should have anything to say about that is Jon. If he does not like the way she speaks to him then he should stop it. No one elses opinion matters. As for the children, they seem to be very happy and well taken care of. Jon and Kate are doing nothing more than any of us would by accepting gifts, trips, etc. You can not honestly tell me that if you were given the chance to experience a free trip with your children you would not take it. Or if you were offered free clothing you would turn them down.

     Jealousy can show its ugly face in so many forms, remember that when you start to talk down on some one elses way of life.

     Jon and Kate, I think you guys are doing a wonderful job. Keep up the good work.

155. Aubrey, on March 27th, 2009 at 2:31 pm Said:

     That stupid picture DOES NOT at all look like Jon!!!! this was a stupid kids plot to scam money!

156. roon, on March 27th, 2009 at 9:14 pm Said:

     Let’s just give Jon and Kate a big hand and leave it like that. I hope they will be back, but ripping them up isn’t going to do anygood. enough is enough
     Hope to see you in June for season 5

157. korie, on March 28th, 2009 at 1:13 pm Said:

     I agree with Grandma, Kate sits like a slouch on that couch and shows her legs like they were something to be admired, which they certainly aren’t. But that aside, this family seriously needs to take a hike once and for all. Learn something from Table for 12 and the Duggar’s on how to treat others. I’m still trying to find some redeeming quality of the Gosselin’s and try as I may, I just can’t find it.
     Gosselin’s, just go…people have had enough of your stupidity and greed

158. Nana, on March 29th, 2009 at 5:39 am Said:

     I am from Malaysia. If you don’t know where that is, it’s half way across the world from the US. I just like to share my views on Jon and Kate plus 8. I think it’s a great reality show. I enjoyed watching it. Kate did a wonderful job raising her children. And Jon is such a loving and supportive husband. I love the Gosselin children. They’re so cute and full of characters. I think they all will grow up to be successful citizens. To Jon and Kate – Congratulations!. Your show has inspired me so much (though I live on the other part of the world). I hope you won’t stop airing your show despite all the rumors that’s going on..

159. cody, on March 29th, 2009 at 2:58 pm Said:

     Lay this joke of a show to rest. The kids just aren’t cute anymore, the parents are a joke. Too much talk of who pooped when, who ate what for lunch, blah blah yadda yadda……don’t forget when one of the kid’s was constipated and the dad speeded up the process with a gloved hand, ewwwwwwwwww. Way TMI
     USED to be cute and kinda refreshing but now it’s just plain crude, boring, and usually annoying.

160. Christina, on March 30th, 2009 at 12:14 am Said:

     Leave them alone!! If they come back, then great for us, great for TLC. If they need space, let them. I give them props for doing what not many would even think of doing. Jon is awsome dad. Kate is wonderful mom. What parents don’t fight in front of their kids at one point. The way Kate is is her personality and won’t change. Jon obviously loved her before the show and knew her attitude. If the TLC helped them get that nice house, so be it, at least they are taking care of their kiddos, unlike many people that sit on their dead ass and don’t do anything but yell, scream, bitch, complain…go to jail….Props to Jon and Kate!!!!

161. kellie, on March 31st, 2009 at 1:27 pm Said:

     ….kate is a ‘wonderful’ mom, uh, yeah, right. Somebody needs to get a life

162. morgan, on March 31st, 2009 at 4:10 pm Said:

     I agree with Judy. I don’t believe any of this crap. They went to Hawaii to get renew their vows. I doubt that this is true. I would only believe it if they came out and said it themselves. They are soooo inspiring and i LOVE their family- Kate Irene, Jon Keith, Cara nicole, mady kate, alexis faith, hannah joy, aaden jonathan, collin thomas, leah hope, joel kevin and their 2 dogs shooka, and nala

163. 55chevy, on March 31st, 2009 at 10:52 pm Said:

     Holy crapola, this family is a nightmare. From it being one of my favorite shows in the beginning to hating it now. They ended up cheaping their lives for the sake of the almighty buck.
     I won’t watch anymore, enough is enough

164. Kidamnesiac, on April 1st, 2009 at 7:35 pm Said:

     “Jon plus Eight, minus Kate” works for me…

165. Robyn, on April 1st, 2009 at 9:22 pm Said:

     Yes, we all get mad at ours spouses at times. She may have a lot of stress due to eight small children. But we all have stress…maybe different kinds of stress.

     Jon and Kate truly are blessed. But, does Kate need to be so disrespectful and hateful? It spreads through out the family.

     I’m just waiting for the kids to begin treating Jon the same way as Kate–DISRESPECTFUL.

166. joanne, on April 2nd, 2009 at 2:35 pm Said:

     Jon says Kate’s career has really taken off and she is not home much. Her true profession is nursing but she doesn’t want to work. So instead she is posing as an author, doing book tours when she didn’t write the book. She goes to home shows giving talks about motherhood while caregivers raise her children. She goes to churches begging for money when the tv show has made them millionaires. This woman is a total fraud, Kate you suck.

167. terry, on April 2nd, 2009 at 9:17 pm Said:

     Does anyone know the educational background of Kon? My understanding is that Jon did not attend college and queenkate got her nursing degree from a vocational school
     Just curious since Kate keeps mentioning how ‘cultured’ she wants her children to be……sure, just like mommy – NOT

168. 55chevy, on April 3rd, 2009 at 5:43 pm Said:

     I heard that Kate left Jon and hooked up with Dustin Diamond, what a PERFECT couple!!! Screech and Screech…

169. Amber, on April 3rd, 2009 at 6:24 pm Said:

     I totally knew this was going to happen, I totally saw this comming since the first season because Kate treats her husband so badly, if I were him, I’d do the samething,,,,what a b*^!h

170. LeBron, on April 4th, 2009 at 8:26 am Said:

     CAN EVERYONE SSTTOOPP B*!#hing about Jon and Kate because everybody has ups and downs in their lives!!! Who cares what the rumors say?! I am still a HUGE fan of the show!! GOOD LUCK JON AND KATE HOPE ALL COMES OUT WELL!!

171. chloe, on April 5th, 2009 at 12:29 pm Said:

     Flush this show down the toilet

172. Jim, on April 5th, 2009 at 6:28 pm Said:

     I agree with Amber. Anyone who paid any details to the first season knows how disrespectful of a person Kate is… Of course, it is Jon’s choice to stay in such a marriage. Only Jon can say if he is happy or not, but there are lots of clues that he is not happy. (If he is happy, I don’t want to know what unhappy is.) However, Jon is a big boy and can make his own decisions. Who I feel sorry for are the children who will grow up to think this is normal behavior. I have hope that there are parents out there who teach their children about unconditional love and being non-judgmental. However, I also believe in Santa Claus. I also agree with Chloe. This show is a shame, almost condoning such behavior in a family. This is a good role model for families…??? Oi vey!

173. Truth, on April 6th, 2009 at 1:22 am Said:

     Man, who could blame Jon? Seriously?

174. Erin, on April 6th, 2009 at 10:20 pm Said:

     I feel bad for the gosslins, i was told at a very young age i would never be able to have children, i now have 4 1/4 year old twin girls, a 20 month old daughter and im expection #4 any time, i also adopted 4 children from my now ex husbands cheating on me while i was pregnant with my twin girls, 3 of my 4 children were ivf babies and my last one(is my only boy) was a suprise child with my second husband, so now i am a single income family with 4 biological children and 4 adopted children, and yes i am planning on having more if i can without invitro, maybe you should focus on the “octo mom” she has no income, her 14 kids have no father, and she has no money to rasie these kids that she wanted sooooo bad but couldnt afford the first 6 she has no buisness being a mother and she deserves all the backlass on her choices but jon and kate dont deserve anything they had their children knowing what they could possiblt have another set of twins or more but they seem to be able to provide of them so they are stressed to the max, dont you think a lot of moms with many small chilren are?? i know i have twin 4 1/4 year olds then i have 2 adopted twins from my exs cheeting that are 3 1/2 and 2 other children from difrent woman that are almost 4 and then i have my biological daughter who is 20 months and my first and old boy who is due any day, yes that will be 8 kids under 5 , i dont have any help from my ex husband for his 6 kids but my current husband supports all 8 kids and us, get over yourselfs and leave people alone

175. chloe, on April 7th, 2009 at 11:05 pm Said:

     Erin,
     I just read your blog twice and still don’t know what the hell you said

176. Berks County Local, on April 8th, 2009 at 8:53 am Said:

     Oh please . . . say your prayers for them, they need it. If you could see them in operation first hand you would know how Kate walks around with her hand out. She expects it. What have they done for the local community that gave them everything? Yup, a big fat GOOSE EGG! Now that is Christian and showing how much you appreciate everyone around you. You say your prayers . . . maybe they will see the light of their ways. Do I feel sorry? No, I only see what is the truth coming to light. Dig a little deeper, do your homework and you will see it too. Too bad they live here . . . maybe they could move to your backyard and you can support them!

177. chloe, on April 10th, 2009 at 5:28 pm Said:

     I’d like to take my frustrations regarding these gypsies and become pro-active…….is there a way to join forces and collectively voice our oppositions to TLC???
     Is there a way to force the Gosselin’s off the air??

178. disgusted, on April 13th, 2009 at 9:11 am Said:

     okay, I really do not like the show, but my kids do. However, Kate has serious spousal abuse issues going on and has since the beginning of the show. It is obvious that when you have that many children the option of divorce would be ludicrous. However, I have my doubts that they would have stayed together had they not had all the children. She is demeaning, condescending, and all around not a nice person. If that is how she acts in front of the camera, I am afraid of how she acts behind the camera.

     Yes, I vote to take the show off the air too. It is ridiculous but will only be replaced by the outright ridiculous Octomom show, which would be worse.

     And the exploitation of the children really gets me. Where is Children and Youth Services when you need them, this cannot be healthy. Obviously, Mattie is not healthy mentally. she has the reality that how her mother acts is normal and acceptable behavior????

179. Matt, on April 14th, 2009 at 1:46 am Said:

     in case you did not know – the term “oriental” should not be used to describe Asians. Not trying to get all PC but speaking from being an Asian myself, I can’t help but to think unflattering thoughts of someone who continues to use the term in that manner.

180. chloe, on April 14th, 2009 at 10:58 pm Said:

     I’d just like to point out that I used to watch this show faithfully. I actually LIKED Kate in the beginning, but then as the show progressed her behaviour started to annoy me and then in the end I was just plain disgusted. The ‘gumgate’ episode is what did it for me.
     I really tried to like her but I just couldn’t anymore. And I think so many people feel the same way I do……it’s not that we’re out here picking on her just to be mean. I can finally see that this woman is just a poor excuse for a human being. She’s spiteful and mean. And OMG, I cannot tolerate bullies like her. They squish you down psychologically to get their way.
     Now this person is in the limelight and has people telling her how great she is and she’s taking it for all it’s worth. Whoever is in her way she’ll run right over them, whether it’s her husband or her children. Because what Kate wants, Kate gets.
     Oh boy, I feel for her kids…..

181. Norma DeMarco, on April 18th, 2009 at 4:34 pm Said:

     Why is everyone being so judgemental and critical? Do you need to tear them down so you can feel better about your own lives? Though they are not perfect I think they are a happy and functional family in general. Every family has issues – what’s your family’s issue? Yes Kate is controlling but she has to be to maintain order within the family and it works. She just needs to ease up on Jon and Jon needs to find a hobby or something that he is good at that he really enjoys doing. Also, maybe have more guy friends. He is the passive and laid back one – easy-going. Maybe he just needs some space for awhile. They are overall good people and have lovely children in my opinion. I don’t know about behind the scenes stuff or family squabbles but no one is perfect – let them alone. We should pray for them and the KIDS rather than be critical.

182. Nancy, on April 22nd, 2009 at 7:57 pm Said:

     I love to watch the show just to see the sextuplets – They are growing like weeds! On this last episode with Steve (Renovation Nation) Thomas – it looked like Kate and Steve were quite friendly while Jon stood back. With a family that young and large, I sincerely hope that they will work things out. Jon DOES look so tired – maybe they should take off a year so they could pull toward each other. Just imagine everyone, if YOUR family had all of those cameras and people in your face all the time! I couldn’t handle it. Good Luck to the Gosselins.

183. Nancy, on April 22nd, 2009 at 8:06 pm Said:

     Ya’ll know there isn’t such a thing as Reality programs, right? They are UNSCRIPTED. Anyway, when they come back, please let us see some hand holding, tenderness, and Kate, please look at Jon as he is your husband, not another of your children. I love ya kiddo, but back up and take a look at your demeanor.

184. kelly, on April 23rd, 2009 at 1:22 pm Said:

     TLC is really overdoing the family of multiples crap.
     I detest J/K + 8, that family has major problems btw…

     Then lo and behold comes Table For 12 – although I do sincerely like this family and they seem genuine. I just hope TLC doesn’t ’spoil’ them as well but at least the mom and dad are likeable and the mom isn’t a raging maniac.

     The Duggar’s are ridiculous with the amount of kids they’re popping out but yet again, they’re likeable and sincere.

     TLC needs to have a show about one family, and one family ONLY instead of saturating the public with these shows. I’d like to see Table For 12 be the one, or the Duggars but definately not J/K + 8, no way

185. Angie Williams, on April 28th, 2009 at 11:21 pm Said:

     I used to watch the show with my Daughter all the time, now I can’t stand watching Kate treat Jon like crap. I really don’t want my Daughter thinking it’s ok, too. Just imagine how their girls will treat their husbands.

     I thought I was the only one who thought Kate was a snot, but now I see that a lot of people see it, too. It’s really sad, and I hope they don’t go for another season, because I will not be watching anyway.

186. Katie, on April 29th, 2009 at 5:43 pm Said:

     Grow up people. If Jon did not want to be with other women or get caught with other women he would not be OUT with other women! 2 times since February that we know of, once at a bar, once at a motel. Like my husband says, if he is out in the middle of the night alone with another woman and they are NOT fooling around, there is something wrong with him!

     If the show gets ruined it is their fault, not the public’s. Again, grow up fans.

187. Patsy, on April 29th, 2009 at 7:41 pm Said:

     I stopped watching the show because that woman is in denial, she is condesending. She thinks she’s cute and that we can not see that she is putting on an act when she pretends that she does not really mean to slap Jon. WOMAN, don’t insult your viewers INTELLIGENCE, we are not STUPID!!! Don’t think that you are above the viewers. Jon, I love it when you’ve had enought and you talk back to her, she even looks stupid, does not know what hit her and pretends to be the victim. Too bad, we all throw our comments and she is so full of herself that she does not care what is said about her, her children may one day read these comments and they will see what she will never see. I will say one thing, the children will grow up to stand up for their Dad and hold resentment towards her because he is NOT a bad father. When he makes decisions, they are healthy decisions, having fun IS HEALTHY! Those who do not see her bad behavior must behave the same way, take some psychology classes for God’s Sake, this is unacceptable behavior. She does not realize she LOOKS bad, she may never see it. Too bad for the children, one more thing, I have noticed Mady speaks to her as she does to Jon. Unfortunatly, she is not doing anyone good, maybe her mother treated her father the same way. Good Luck to Jon and the children.

188. BJM, on April 30th, 2009 at 1:51 am Said:

     Kate, Stay home and raise your children. After all they are supporting you. Jon, get a job. That way you can get out of the house and away from Kates controlling attitude for awhile. I think she has let the show consume her. She better be ready for a reality check when those kids get older, because there will be a time when they will realize that it was them that made the money, and they are not going to want HER to control it. It seems Jon loves his children, but why does it always seem like Kate is pushing them down his throat? Do any of these kids do chores, or have duties to perform to give them any self esteem and teach them self respect? Just get off the show, put the kids in school,Kate go back to your part time nursing and Jon get a job. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.

189. Chuck Norris, on April 30th, 2009 at 1:40 pm Said:

     The press is HORRIBLE. People should realize that paparazzis get paid for getting scandalous photos. They get paid, basically for getting a photo to ruin someone’s life. Someone’s pain is their gain.

     I understand that it is their job, and we see these photos as entertainment. And sometimes they humiliate celebrities, but putting Jon at this spot is horrible. He should have thought it through, but people make mistakes

     What disgusts me is that the paparazzis enjoying creating a story like this. They are trying to destroy a family. This is a bordar line of being an ass hole. Jon and Kate have 8 kids, and the press wants to separate the family because they want to make money. This is a new low for them. I am absolutely disgusted.

190. Vincent Fline, on April 30th, 2009 at 2:36 pm Said:

     They’ve had their 15 minutes.

191. Jane, on April 30th, 2009 at 3:11 pm Said:

     I can’t believe any of you would actually like the Duggars.
     They’re trying to a build a conservative religious army. What’s the deal with all the girls having really long hair and only wearing long skirts? They probably won’t get to go to college either. They probably don’t allow them to go to public school because it might actually teach them something. The mom is some subservient houseslave that looks like she’s from an FLDS compound. All she’s good for is making babies and doing all the domestic chores.
     The only reason they can support all their children is because churches give them money, which is completely unfair. Just because they’re constantly popping out children because that’s apparently what God wants. Though the world is overpopulated and there’s plenty of children in need of being adopted.

192. Jane, on April 30th, 2009 at 3:15 pm Said:

     Also, Kate is really not as bad as you all say. Jon has his problems too — he’s passive-aggressive. Leave them alone. They’re real people. Just because they actually fight and get stressed like real couples (with EIGHT kids) doesn’t mean they’re horrible people.
     Have any of you actually considered Mady might just have a dramatic, fierce personality?

193. Rose, on April 30th, 2009 at 4:34 pm Said:

     My boyfriend and I discovered this show by chance a couple months ago and looked forward to watching all the episodes we possibly could..both old and new. We both grew up in families where discipline was enforced but at no time did we feel unloved. I LOVE watching the show and the sextuplets (alexis aaden Collin hannah leah and joel) are the most adorable!!! but.. they growing up now.. and 4 year olds arent as sute as 2 or 3 year olds… as for the twins.. cara is such a beautiful child.. mady on the other hand… needs a slap. she is quite rude disrespectful and just plain obnoxious but… we can see where she gets it from (remember the episode where she (and cara) were to be mommy for the day) we have seen mady demonstrate very kate-like attitudes for some time now and its only gettin worse…

     i do hope that God continues to bless them though and helps them through this rough patch….

     Kate… what u do to jon is considered verbal abuse… check yourself…

194. kaitlyn, on April 30th, 2009 at 4:44 pm Said:

     You people are ridiculous!
     1) What they actually film and edit on the show on TLC is only what they feel like filming and editing into the show. You idiots need to realize that the film crew is only there for like 12 hours a week. They aren’t going to show the boring stuff!
     2) Jon took an innocent picture with some fans… OH MY GOD they happened to be girls! Do guys watch the show religiously? Most likely not! And he said the lady in his car was a friend. This could be 100% true. What guy do you know shuts himself off from all girl just becuase he’s married. I know none.
     3) What would you be like if you were in Kate’s position? I’m sure you wouldn’t be happy go lucky all the time and let the kids get away with ANYTHING! She has 8 children, 6 of which are all 4! If you were in her position you wouldn’t be the nicest person ever.

     I can genuinely tell that Jon and especially Kate are trying to provide for their family the best they can. Get a **cking grip, get a life, and stop critisizing a family you’ve never met.

195. John, on April 30th, 2009 at 6:19 pm Said:

     I think Kate is on crank. That woman is high strung!

196. miss amanda, on April 30th, 2009 at 6:19 pm Said:

     I like the show but man do i feel sorry for jon….kate treats him like a child,hes a good dad and she needs to appreciate him and not care about his freakin speech and just let the poor man talk,i wouldnt be surprise if he did cheat,shes a naggin,speech correctin,lame,perfect mommy wife wanna be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ughhhhhhhh,run jon run!!!! if she doesnt that is:)

197. miss amanda, on April 30th, 2009 at 6:22 pm Said:

     change that is i left that out

198. Vicki, on April 30th, 2009 at 7:30 pm Said:

     I pray for them and their family. It has to be very stressful to be on television and try to stay “normal.”

199. dolores, on April 30th, 2009 at 8:47 pm Said:

     she is mean to him. she has a false scense of superiority.

200. Mary, on May 1st, 2009 at 2:55 pm Said:

     I was so saddened by the stories about Jon and Kate. They have taken on such a responsibility. The most important thing over anyone or anything in their lives is this family. Both must step up to the plate and put all their energy into nuturing their spouse and children. Jon should be a real man and father, Kate I think could show a little more respect for her husband. Maybe her comments are just part of the show, but sometimes I just cringe at how she speaks to him. Maybe it is not such a good idea to be traveling so much. Please focus on your family, don’t let all this pull your family apart. TV show, traveling, other people, none of this is as important as holding your family together,

201. Tina, on May 1st, 2009 at 11:01 pm Said:

     I have 6 children so I DO know the frustrations of childrrearing.

     Kate’s treatment of Jon is appalling.

     Kate, wake up and read Dr. Laura’s books and put them into practice ASAP or you WILL lose Jon and devastate your family.

     Just be nice!

202. chey, on May 2nd, 2009 at 8:08 am Said:

     You guys need to be a little easy on kate. Ok yes i have watched the episodes where she could have respected john more but you have to understand this is a real family with real problems. John works and everything but shit that’s considered a break to me because kate has to stay home with the kids ALL DAY and ALL NIGHT. I just feel like everyone is so quick to judge but we only see what’s going on with their family when the cameras are on, we have no idea what their relationship is like with the cameras off or what else they have already been through. They are entitled to get a little flustered at times and as far as i’m concerned until you are in a position raising eight kids all pretty much the same age, then you really have no right to talk in the first place. Oh and i read something about someone saying how kate is wrong for exposing her kids let me put it like this, most mothers will make sure their kids are well provided for and hope their kids will have many opportunities in life. By doing the show her family has got to experience things they maybe would never have been able to without the show. Even if kate is a bitch to john that still gives him no reason to cheat IF those rumors are true.

203. ann, on May 2nd, 2009 at 12:54 pm Said:

     Jon and Kate Plus 8 used to be one of my favorite shows. But over the years, Kate has treated Jon like a child. She really shows him no respect and it seems she is in it for the money.
     She seems like a bitch that’s hard to get along with and wants everything for herself. Sometimes i feel sorry for the children because she just screams all the time. I don’t blame Jon
     when he wants to get away and see some of his friends, instead of being in the house with crazy ass Kate!

204. janet, on May 2nd, 2009 at 1:53 pm Said:

     are you kidding people?? I AM WONDERING HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE 8 CHILDREN TO BRING UP AT THE SAME TIME 6 AND TWINS. I WONDER HOW YOUR ATTITUDES WILL BE DAILY. YOU TRY TO DO WHAT THEY ARE DOING AND LETS SEE IF FRUSTRATION DOESN’T TO YOU…AND THEN YOU MAY TAKE ON EACH OTHER….SO WHAT YOU NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER GET FRUSTRATED????? GET A LIFE PEOPLE……THESE PEOPLE HAVE ONE AND WORK HARD….GOD BLESS YOU JON AND KATE

205. katie kulll, on May 2nd, 2009 at 1:54 pm Said:

     i think its sad when people try to make money off their kids personal lives!!! this show is a laugh i do not let my kids watch it i feel sorry for jon

206. katie kulll, on May 2nd, 2009 at 1:56 pm Said:

     oh 1 more thing i come from a very wealthy family and they would totally disown me!! besides marie osmong was the first mom of multiples i have more respect for her!!

207. Jen, on May 2nd, 2009 at 4:19 pm Said:

     wat is rong with sum ov the peeple that post on this bord cant you spel or use punshuashin or correct grammer com on peiple you look like a bunch of ideeits!!!!!!!!!!! also no wonder jon is cheeting kate’s vaj must be like a water slide by now!!!!!!!!!!!!

208. Jeannie, on May 2nd, 2009 at 7:15 pm Said:

     Kate should be ashamed of herself for downing Jon for every little thing he say’s wrong….. She should look at some of the epasode’s when she say’s thing wrong.He doesn’t make fun of her. She alway’s say’s we love each other don’t we? I thing she has gotten to big headed and think’s she is all that. Well it just make her ugly. Love to watch the kid’s. She has made Jon her servent.It look like he does everything. And all she does it run around yelling JON do this JON do that JON JON…… No wonder he is drinking…………..

209. Paula, on May 2nd, 2009 at 10:47 pm Said:

     Raising a family can become a real bore. I think Jon & Kate have become real actors. As with any actors they do what the boss tells them to do to keep the ratings up. The station would even provide the rumors. Eventually the actors begin to feel used and realize that they lack a true identy. They want to quit. Contract time rolls around and the boss promises a better image and perks on perks to get a signature on the dotted line. The actors have become accustomed to the money, and relying on the income have gone so far as to plan ahead . They get locked in until the station runs out of ideas and drops them. You thought you were reading between the lines while all the time the station was shouting reasons for you to continue clicking on their channel to see if Kate is driving Jon away, or is Kate having altogether too much fun for a mother of eight. The station won’t take a chance on you returning to the boring life of Jon and Kate. They will give you reason to return. IT’S BUSINESS, They have to plan ahead or you would never know what’s on TV for sure. TV programs don’t just happen on a day-to-day basis, a lot of planning goes into this. Believe it!

210. Paula, on May 2nd, 2009 at 11:38 pm Said:

     Raising a family can become a real bore. I think Jon & Kate have become real actors. As with any actors they do what the boss tells them to do to keep the ratings up. The station would even provide the rumors.

     Eventually the actors want to quit. Contract time rolls around and the boss promises a better image and more perks. The actors have become accustomed to the money, and relying on the income have gone so far as to plan ahead . They get locked in until the station runs out of ideas and drops them. You thought you were reading between the lines while all the time the station was shouting reasons for you to continue clicking on their channel to see if Kate is driving Jon away, or is Kate having altogether too much fun for a mother of eight.

     The station won’t take a chance on you returning to the boring life of Jon and Kate. They will give you reason to return. It’s business–they have to plan ahead or you would never know what’s on TV for sure. TV programs are not just happenstance, a lot of planning goes into this. Believe it!

211. Katharine, on May 3rd, 2009 at 1:29 pm Said:

     I am amazed that people believe the buzz about Jon. I am not a fan of the show; however, I consider myself to be fairly smart. In this day and age, if he had been dirty dancing or making out, there would be a CELL PHONE VIDEO, especially in a college town. None exists or it would have surfaced. If you glance at the picture, you realize that it was probably taken at a restaurant – no party scene in the background. Please, I am sick and tired of reading this nonsense when picking up a mag at the gym! Move on!

212. Christine, on May 3rd, 2009 at 6:05 pm Said:

     I hope they don’t get a divorce. I love the show and seeing their happy kids have to deal with their parents parting…that sucks.

213. Cynthia, on May 4th, 2009 at 4:29 pm Said:

     Who really knows what is going on with this family. They could have stopped TLC from exploiting them at any time. When one chooses to be in the lime light something has to be forfeited, and thats privacy. Jon really should not be seen in the light that he has by being caught in a bar without his wife. If I were Kate I wouldnt be real happy with Jon causeing that kind of negative publicity. They have used the money to buy a nice home and now they need to just move on and be a family.

214. TERRY, on May 4th, 2009 at 6:21 pm Said:

     it has to be hard to care for so many kids but with the loot you have made on tv you should be able to afford excellent help. i would advise kate to stop ragging on jon so much it is wearing for the audience and can be seen in jon.
     you are great at taking kids out forexperiences but you need to work on making your love firmer.

215. Concetta, on May 4th, 2009 at 8:37 pm Said:

     Seeing Jon and Kate’s relationship reminds me very much of my own parents. My Mom is very controlling and critical and my Dad is very laid-back and non-confrontational. Dad almost got entangled in an affair because Mom’s attitude drove him away. But, through lots of prayer and some marital counseling, they have gotten closer and are working together to solve their problems. This all happened a long time ago. My Mom has become less critical and tries to look at my Dad’s point of view.

     I really hope Jon and Kate do not get a divorce! I also wish they did not broadcast that they were Christian because of things like this. People will scrutinize you even more, waiting to see something like this happen and say, “there you go! All Christians are frauds.” Or something to that effect. All Christians are human and make mistakes. Infidelity is not the end of the road for a marriage and shouldn’t be if the couple admits to it and wants to fix things. They need to work through it. And if they are indeed the Christians they say they are, they will not give up because they made a vow: “for better or for worse.”

216. julie, on May 4th, 2009 at 9:32 pm Said:

     There’s not a marriage out there that’s perfect. John and Kate will work through this, regardless of the veracity of the allegations. Humans are just that — “human.” If a mistake was made, they can work through it. If no mistake was made, then we’re back to “status quo” and people need to ignore the tabloids.

217. Jim, on May 5th, 2009 at 5:25 pm Said:

     I live near the Gosselins and I have seen this freak show from the first days of the kids life. The parents who for a lack of a better term are freeloaders. When they started to get donations for the kids like diapers and clothes they had the nerve to ask for a mini-van which caused quite a little uproar in the local paper. Jon did not have a job at the time of the birth of the sextuplets. Someone gave him a job after reading about his unemployment. A real go getter.
     To top it off they want you to think that God wanted them to have the kids. I think God was sending a message when Kate could not get pregnant. The only reason they have kids is science. So maybe they should go worship a glass beaker. These two a-holes deserve each other.

218. kelly, on May 6th, 2009 at 3:12 pm Said:

     It doesn’t matter that Kate has 8 kids, it doesn’t matter that cameras are in her overly made-up face 24/7, it doesn’t matter that she’s, oh so stressed. These things have NOT turned her into the bitch that we all see. She was born a bitch and will remain a bitch, kids or no kids. She’s a demeaning, manipulative bully, born and raised. Nothing is good enough for her, NOTHING.
     To all those sheeple out there saying us ‘haters’ are jealous of her, you need to understand one thing: we hate her because she is a MEAN, UNGRATEFUL, and HATEFUL human being who thinks she’s superior to everyone around her. There is not one drop of sweetness or gratefulness in this woman.
     So ask yourselves how we can be envious or jealous of this. Wake up and maybe then you’ll understand why this woman generates so much hatred.

219. natasha, on May 7th, 2009 at 6:27 pm Said:

     really its no one elses business. let them deal with their problems ALONE.

220. belinda, on May 7th, 2009 at 9:14 pm Said:

     Every show that is a couple that gets on tv ends up in a divorce because people want to make up lies and put it all over the media”its so sad to see”leave them alone jon can hang out with who ever he wants to it doesnt mean hes cheating on kate”they dont have to stay in this bubble of only hanging out with eachother they had friends before this show”’
     jon and kate didnt start this show to see it fall and end up in divorce no they started it to show people how they take care of there 8 kids day to day and that they will be together always”yes kate is a little to hard on jon but he loves her for who she is ”he married her because of who she is she didnt change ”i hope that they get through this because they are a great family and there kids dont need to see what this world is trying to do to there family”’so people need to back off and let them be happy ‘its sad that theres people out there that dont like to see people happy they have to stab them in the back and make up rumors”’

     jon and kate i love you guys and hope you stay together as a family”i pray that they do because the kids would be in so much hurt to see there parents in different living places””
     god bless jon and kate plus 8

221. kort, on May 8th, 2009 at 12:35 pm Said:

     blah blah blah, yadda yadda yadda….yeah, whatever

222. sydney, on May 8th, 2009 at 3:55 pm Said:

     I think that you will work youre problems. Kate Quit treating Jon like A Toddler

223. betty, on May 8th, 2009 at 5:00 pm Said:

     I have been a viewer since 07 and i think kate needs to lose the b**** attuide.But at the beginnig she seemed nice but now she is a bag.They are NOTHING like the duggars.The duggars are very nice.Kate is not nice or greatful at all.At the end kate went to the tanning salon and to the spa.I know that because she looked way tanner than what she usaly looks. Seems to make me think that there was something going.Jon i feel so bad for jon because he gets yelled at all the time by kate so i am not surprised that they might be getting a divorce.But i would like to see them come back on so i don’t know if they are going to get a divorce????

224. Justin Godfrey, on May 9th, 2009 at 6:40 pm Said:

     Seen this on JonGosselin(.)com

     Its crazy what fame and fortune will do to you. Look at the before pic (when they first started their show) and the after pic of Kate…crazy crazy!

225. Shelly, on May 11th, 2009 at 10:04 am Said:

     Whether the rumors are true or false, they are a faith-based family. They will seek God’s help and will get through this. Hopefully the press will leave them alone so they can work this out, but we all no the press preys on people’s personal tragedies.

     God Bless you Jon and Kate! Your show is one of last decent shows for family viewing and we really do enjoy watching it as a family. God be with you at this time.

226. Ben, on May 11th, 2009 at 11:30 am Said:

     People, word of advice: stop watching reality TV and mind your *own* far-from-perfect lives instead of being a voyeur and critic for other people’s lives. All of this foolishness is nothing but idle gossip on a national level.

227. LA, on May 11th, 2009 at 2:46 pm Said:

     I AGREE WITH “JANET” AS SHE QUOTES..
     are you kidding people?? I AM WONDERING HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE 8 CHILDREN TO BRING UP AT THE SAME TIME 6 AND TWINS. I WONDER HOW YOUR ATTITUDES WILL BE DAILY. YOU TRY TO DO WHAT THEY ARE DOING AND LETS SEE IF FRUSTRATION DOESN’T TO YOU…AND THEN YOU MAY TAKE ON EACH OTHER….SO WHAT YOU NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER GET FRUSTRATED????? GET A LIFE PEOPLE……THESE PEOPLE HAVE ONE AND WORK HARD….GOD BLESS YOU JON AND KATE

     …. like seriously … mabey they are just going through a rough patch .hey everyone does im sure. like i just lost my and and great uncle … at the same time and i was a wreck.

228. Kayla, on May 11th, 2009 at 3:24 pm Said:

     I love Jon and Kate. People need to get a life and leave them the heck alone. I still watch the show and I will continue to watch it. SCREW all those dumb A’s that don’t have a life. I will pray for you Jon and Kate! : )

229. DLA, on May 11th, 2009 at 5:31 pm Said:

     I personally enjoy watching the show a great deal. I think Kate is doing very well as a mother of 8. Childeren need a little bit of a strict house or the world ends up with people who think its ok to rob banks and kill one another. jon and kate’s personal life is their business. Every marriage is a journey that can be the best dream ever, or the rockiest road at times, and it is no-one’s business but the two living it. I have watched the show a lot while I was away at college. I personally love it. I enjoy jon and kate’s personalities. They have 8 beautiful kids each with their own wonderful personas. I admire you both Jon and Kate. I will pray for you every day.

230. Nicole, on May 12th, 2009 at 9:42 am Said:

     Kate is a b#*!h to Jon, Just because she has 8 kids doesn’t give her the right to treat her husband like s*!t. I have 6 kids and I don’t act like that. He has every reason to divorce her and take those kids, Kates nasty attitude is rubbing off on those kids and the girls act just like her. I stopped watching the show because of Kate. Kate is a horrid person.

231. kort, on May 12th, 2009 at 12:44 pm Said:

     All I can say is you reap what you sow.
     This ridiculous couple has no redeeming qualities whatsoever. No volunteering, no giving to charities, nothing…..
     gimme, gimme, gimme ‘cuz we’re so religious, gimme, gimme, we love the lord, gimme, gimme
     What a freaking joke

232. Melon, on May 12th, 2009 at 4:58 pm Said:

     I’ve never seen or heard anything about Kate or Jon’s relatives or friends. I’ve seen two shows with Kate’s blond sister (is it her sister?). What’s the problem with the relatives and friends?

233. Cud, on May 12th, 2009 at 9:03 pm Said:

     Every family does have there flaws. And I think they love their kids and are good parents. But I was a devoted fan, loved the show because it was about coping in extraordinary situation, and how they handled it, and who was there to help them. Then the fall season started. And I thought to myself “is it me or has Kate turned up the knob on how much she puts down Jon? And, where are the people that used to be part of their lives? What the heck are they doing in that huge house with a horse barn, didn’t Kate profess herself to not be a nature girl? And, here comes another show about a fabulous trip?” So became irritated and stopped watching regularly. Then Jon was photographed at bars at 2am without his ring while Kate was out of town. I asked myself, “who’s with the kids?” The show became about sniping rich people spending money on going green, or walking their vast acreage. Falling apart when they have so much. So my perception is that they let this fame change them, and not in a good way. Maybe I am wrong. All I know to be true is that they IRRITATE ME, now I turn the channel when the shows commercials come on, much less cannot watch the show.

234. Val, on May 12th, 2009 at 11:50 pm Said:

     I just have one major gripe with quite a few posts on this board. I have seen people keep using the excuse that this family has 8 kids or they would like to see the other posters take care of 8 kids. My grandmother had 9 kids. She raised them all, by herself. They were all close together in age. Did she disrespect her husband? NO! Was she out to see what she could get from having such a large family? NO. Is having 8 kids an excuse for being disrespectful and downright greedy? NO. Do most people with large families get everything they want handed to them on a silver platter? NOPE! They have to work for it and don’t make a profit off their children. They chose to be in the public eye. Therefore they opened themselves up to criticism.

235. Toni, on May 13th, 2009 at 10:31 am Said:

     I feel that Kate needs to give credit where credit is due. Jon is a good father and he trys to help with everything. Plus going to his job every day then coming home to help with 8 children. Be more compasionate. I hope that neither one of them are having an affair, for the children’s sake. It will be hard on the 8 little ones and anyone else.

236. kort, on May 13th, 2009 at 2:00 pm Said:

     …and now Mrs. Screech Monkey is having her own line of children’s clothing at Wal-Mart??!!!

     Ka-ching, Ka-ching

237. TAILS, on May 13th, 2009 at 5:25 pm Said:

     SO YOU GUYS ARE TELLIN ME THAT YOU BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU READ OR HEAR ABOUT THINGS!
     YOU CAN’T BELIEVE EVERTHING IN THE WORLD SOME PEOPLE MAKE UP RUMORS YOU KNOW! THIS COULD BE SOMETHING THAT GOT SPREAD AROUND BY A N INTERVIEWER. MAYBE SOME PEOPLE HEARD WRONG AND THIS IS HOW IT CAME TO BE. YOU COULD BE BLAMING JON AND KATE FOR SOMETHING THEY MIGHT NOT HAVE EVEN DONE OR SAID! THINK ABOUT THEIR KIDS! THINK ABOUT HOW MADDIE AND CARA FEEL!THEY ARE EIGHT YEARS OLD AND THEY UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT’S GOING ON! IMAGINE IF YOU WERE IN THIS SITUATION. DO YOU KNOW HOW UPSET YOU’D BE? WHAT IF THE RUMORS GET AROUND THEIR SCHOOL AND THEY AREN’T TRUE. IF THEY TRY TO TELL PEOPLE THAT THEY AREN’T TRUE AND PEOPLE DON’T BELIEVE THEM YOU KNOW HOW UPSET AND ANGRY THEY MUST FEEL!!!! I’M NOT SAYING THAT IT IS TRUE AND I’M NOT SAYING IT ISN’T TRUE, BUT YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT THAT FAMILY OF TEN BEFORE YOU GO POSTING ON THIS SITE! PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SITUATION!

238. jerry, on May 13th, 2009 at 7:09 pm Said:

     how could u do that to your own kids. There a big part of yor life.Your wife is more important then that woman u met.

     DONT DO THAT. PLEZ

239. NIKKY, on May 13th, 2009 at 10:10 pm Said:

     The problem is not Jon or kate, but I think about the kids thay didn’t ask to have their life on TV and being the gossip of everybody. Is to expect as you are doing tv show that your life will be put under the microscope and nothing will be missed, who ever the fault is and however people are acting is not too much the problem, I am very sad for the kids, I have a child around the same age, what are they going through, maybe they need to stop to be on the spotlight and think more about their family and their balance.

240. dina, on May 14th, 2009 at 8:46 am Said:

     I like the show, and I am saddened that their marriage is breaking up.

     I am surprised that with all these comments, so many blame Kate’s attitude toward Jon for his behavior.

     I had a cheating husband and I was totally sweet to him. But once I realized he was cheating (right after I had our first baby) I could not stand him.

     You ladies must not have had the experience, but when you have gone through all that sacrifice and all the day to day challenges with small children, the last thing you can tolerate is an immature, selfish man who escapes to an affair to make himself feel better.

     Have some empathy for Kate–her husband is not a real man and she has to carry on for her children no matter how awfully he behaves.

     Do not blame her for his weak behavior. She attacks him because he attacked her by cheating.

241. kort, on May 14th, 2009 at 5:52 pm Said:

     And who can blame him, that wife of his was hard-wired at birth with ‘b*!#h’ written all over her.

242. sandra loupe, on May 14th, 2009 at 7:08 pm Said:

     Ok all this drama need to be put aside. Kate and John needs to take a time out together without the MEDIA. and spend time alone to rekindle the fire that they had for each other. I have all the episodes and glance a bit thru all and see the fire slowly fading. The expressions on their faces are becoming apparent that they need time alone together, then time alone with their kids. Bless the kids hearts, they are the ones hurting more than us. So take a time out Gosselins and spend time alone without us(media) for a change, those beautiful children needs you (KATE & JOHN) the most. Sure we will miss you all. but your family comes first. Just think no one elseknows thoses kids better than you two.

243. A Mom with no agenda, on May 15th, 2009 at 12:37 am Said:

     At first the show seemed so inocent and helpful for parents as we could say to ourselves well if they can do it with 8 kids we can manage with ours…but then you got the sense that they would do things just for shock or show scenes. What is so scary here that in all this crisis she continues to promote and travel on the other side of the country away from her kids…
     They need to change the series category out from reality! There is no amount of money in the world that would compromise my children’s future, privacy and morals. They have the power to walk away and live for their children together or seperatly but honestly this show should not continue it’s a disgrace for families, christians, parents and America…wake up Jon & Kate!

244. Suzy, on May 15th, 2009 at 6:27 am Said:

     Yes, I agree with Dina. If I need to believe which one of them is cheating, I would say Jon. Kate is WAY to busy taking care of the kids 24-7. She wouldn’t have time to cheat, unlike Jon. Jon, stop accusing Kate cheating on you. She’s taking care of your large family!

245. Sarah, on May 15th, 2009 at 8:54 pm Said:

     The average person cheats because something is not being fulfilled in his/her own personal life. Even though there are many parts of their lives we do not see, you can notice the tension and stress between them. We have seen them (mostly Kate) berate her husband and not treat him like he matters. This is not how a person treats the man she loves. If you treat your husband with love and make him believe he is the only man in your life, then he will do the same in return. Men are simple and easy to please, women make it complicated. This is probably why he would cheat. I’m not saying he did, but would you blame him. I sympathize with Kate as well. She is caught in a trap that many women are in. They get so involved with managing children, that women forget that their husbands are not one of their kids. I think they should both read Dr. Laura Schlessinger’s books… The proper care and feeding of marriage and The proper care and feeding of husbands. Both books are very enlightening and would make a huge difference. It is better to stay together and act like you love each other for the sake of the kids than to make them get shuttled from one place to another just to see a parent. They, and every other child, are not possessions or commodities. Once you have even one child, they should be the priority, not just when you want them. They need to suck it up and stay together for the kids. Plus, if you act like you care about each other, then it might actually happen… “Fake it til you make it”. As much as I like the show, filming needs to stop (at least for a while). It’s creating more stress on them, especially Jon. Kate needs to take her husband’s feelings and wants into consideration. Once she does things to please her husband and let him know that she has changed and will make him a priority, then it will go her way in return.

246. sandy, on May 16th, 2009 at 3:01 pm Said:

     Blah, blah …blah!!
     I will never forget what one of my teachers favorite sayings …DON’T BELIEVE ANYTHING YOU HEAR AND ONLY HALF OF WHAT YOU SEE!!!!

247. Becky, on May 16th, 2009 at 11:03 pm Said:

     No amount of money and fame is worth the destruction of an entire family. How humiliating to have all this televised. I would walk away from all of this and fast. The protection and healing of this family is the top priority. This family has been self destructing for years. The children appear so angry and annoyed at times. Protect your children Jon and Kate. Children can live quite well without tons of money. What they really need is a home of peace and love and two parents who love one another.

248. kim, on May 17th, 2009 at 11:50 am Said:

     I wish the tabloids would just shut there mouths!!!!!!!! I do not belive niether on jon or kate cheated and they are fine. Th tabloids ran out of things to say about jennifer aniston and bradd pitt and angelina that they needed to start on other familys and people who have such a good life an no drama with the media!!!!

249. Barbara Jones, on May 17th, 2009 at 4:21 pm Said:

     TLC should look at this show and see how it is unrepresetative of their Mission. Kate needs an awakening and restoration of her humanity. It obviously does not extend to her poor husband. After living with Kate the Shrew,the poor man needs some recreation and appreciation.I do not condone cheating ,but we are only human.Everyone wants some love,gratitude,appreciation and these are things he does not get at home with his wife.God bless him for withstanding the abuse this long.I could not watch the show,Kate disturbed me so badly with her obvious disgust of her husband and family.How can she be a good mother when she literally destroys the father of her children.Since the children resemble him,what must she be doing and saying to those beautiful children when the cameras are off.Pray for the welfare of those poor mistreated children due to the insanity of their mother.

250. Kiwi, on May 18th, 2009 at 12:45 am Said:

     WHAT IS MADY”S PROBLEM.ARE WE SURE SHES NOT THE MISERABLE REASON THERES A SEPERATION IN SIGHT.That kid is By far the most MISERABLE Brat I have ever seen,Her twin sis is pretty much the same But not Nearly as bad.I cant find anywhere on theyre Blog to ask this And Its been eating at me.So perhaps this is off the topic,but GET THAT GIRL HELP Has anyone EVER seen Her Smile?? LOOK at the Pics anywhere.NOT A SMILE

251. michelle, on May 18th, 2009 at 10:48 am Said:

     i love john kate plus 8 and i hope that all this rummors are just rummors. and i hope that they can do a show explining all this mess

252. Armando, on May 18th, 2009 at 3:32 pm Said:

     Jon needs to leave Kate! She is not for him, she is all about herself first, then the kids…..its never about him! RUN JON RUN!!!! Get out now!

253. Tim, on May 20th, 2009 at 9:59 am Said:

     Come on folks, this show is FAKE. Not unlike any of the other fantasy shows on TV. They no longer line a real life…They have tons of freebies and make $75,000 per episode!!! Do any of you make that per year?? I doubt it…Kate will be going back to the trailer park soon…P.S. she needs to fix that Hair…Did ther kids cut it???

254. Sam, on May 20th, 2009 at 3:31 pm Said:

     To all the people that cry jealousy:

     I’m not jealous of Jon and Kate but I do think that they are in it for the money! Sure it takes alot of money to raise 8 kids but what they are doing is wrong. It is hard enough dealing with your emotions as a child. Remember when you were young? The confusing emotions you experienced? The embarassment at times? Now imagine dealing with all of that while your being filmed and put on national television. Doesn’t sound very good does it? Plus, fame is something that is hard to deal with all on its own much less will your learning who you are. Look at most of the child stars from when we were young. Its diffucult to deal with and most of the time it has a bad outcome. The first few seasons were ok the children were too young to really realize what was going on. They are too old for it now. I have a five year old and anyone who has a child that age should realize that they are not equiped to deal with the stress and decision making that fame entails. If you notice Kate has changed drastically as the fame has escalated. If she, as an adult, cannot deal with it how are the kids supposed to? Also, what about teaching your kids how to live in the real world? I am fortunate enough to be able to provide very well for my child but he still needs be taught that things are not given to you, you have to earn them. These children are growing up famous and having things handed to their family. How are they supposed to learn to deal with the real world?

     As for Jon and Kates marriage. I don’t know if THEY are cheating nor do I care. In my OPINION, Kate is not the nicest person in the world and Jon needs to grow a set. You should not treat ANYBODY the way Kate treats Jon and Jon should not allow himself to be treated that way. A relationship is based on trust and respect and I don’t see either coming out on the show. You also have to remember the way children learn how to get along with others first comes from the parents.
     In my OPINION, they should stop the show and concentrate on their family. If its true that Kate had him sign a contract stating he was free to have girlfriends and do what he likes as long as he shows up for filming then there is no hope left for them. If you give your significant other permission to sleep with other people then you no longer want your relationship to work.
     Have a good day everyone!
     P.S.
     One good thing about living in America is we have the freedom to express our opinions. If you don’t like what is being expressed don’t read it!

255. Roxy, on May 20th, 2009 at 4:13 pm Said:

     I cant belive that Jon would do that to kate at first the show was AWSOME and now that jon did that there whole life is down the drain just because of jon. i feel really bad for the kids. If Jon is going to do that they should spit up but i dont want them to but if thats the way he is gonna act they might as well just end it.
     Armando,
     I dissagree with you because i know how kate can act but jon is just being a JERK and you need to take a chill pill because it is about him to and you are just being a self centerd jerk its not all kates fault and jon can act that way. HE IS just being weird.

256. connie, on May 20th, 2009 at 5:55 pm Said:

     give me a breake .she does not call THE HELPER a nanny give it a break.that what it is,quit your lying kate just tell the truth.and u not liking the hoe sick u should not of got them then.u probably treat them like u treat jon.u deserve every bit u get.hope u r happy about exploiting your children.how much of the money do they get.bet none poor kate has to have it all to her self.

257. connie, on May 20th, 2009 at 6:02 pm Said:

     kate is for sure all about her self.ditch the hair do it looks like a stripper hair cut and mady;s is sure a brat.she is her mothers daughter.u need to get that kid some help she has a problem .what a sad life she will have no friend or when she gets older good luck at a boy friend..get her treatment.asap

258. connie, on May 20th, 2009 at 6:11 pm Said:

     give me a break.she does not call the helper a nanny then what the hell is she [A NANNY].why don’t u tell the truth.and u not liking the dog what a shame u probably treat the dogs the same way u treat your family.like s—t.i hope u r happy with exploiting your children.guess the money is more important.always has been right.as long as it;s about kate she will hurt whom ever;i bet the children see no money being the show is about them.u need to kiss there feet[children]for making u sooooo much money

259. CAROLYN, on May 20th, 2009 at 6:41 pm Said:

     it’s not for us to judge. try taking care of 8 children and having a camera in your face everywhere you go. they have no privacy. at one time they had a normal life but probably never will again. i pray things will work out for them. who doesn’t have problems along the way. i pray they get through this and keep their family together.

260. Daniella, on May 21st, 2009 at 6:22 pm Said:

     Well, let me first said I love the kids, they each have their own personality….Kate REALLY needs HELP!!! Just the way she talks to Jon it’s so wrong. She talks to him like he’s her child. She talks down to him and that makes him fell like a least of a man. So, if his wife not treating him right why not go find a female that make him feel like he’s important? I don’t think he was right but she was pushing him away. She needs to learn to have and show respect towards him. One more issue that I don’t get?….Why isn’t her parents around? It don’t matter how many kids you have grandparents always going to love their grandchildren. I think there’s something they not telling the world. Who wouldn’t want their mother help with the children. She can’t say she don’t want to depend on her parents because there’s other family friends that helps her out. Another thing before they sign up for the show they knew what they getting theirselfs into. That’s something they agree to have the family in the public eye. So, I don’t think no one should consider that a issue. If they want to be a private family maybe they shouldn’t sign up for the show.

261. sally, on May 21st, 2009 at 11:33 pm Said:

     I think there are problems and that there may or may not have been affair’s. What ever happened or happens however, is between the two of them, and not all of America. Maybe now that they have grown themselves in this long episode of the kids lives, it is about their lives too. Sometimes people grow faster than other’s and maybe this is the reason for the problems or they both realize that they can’t go on with each other. however, one of the great statements of all times, would be “the grass is definitely not greener on the other side”. The problems are and will remain to be the same if they both do not get professional help, no matter how their lives move on. It is clear to see why there may be big issues in this family and the big one I see is control……they both have to control together as a team, but not one of them and the other following………it is a give and take situation. The biggest problem that I see is that they won’t fix this, they won’t repair what has been damaged and the only ones that will be hurt are the wonderful 8 children that need both of the parent’s together. Down the road when the kids are older and live goes on, the two of them will see what they lost and it will be too late then. We have all come to love and adore the kids, and I also feel like a MOm watching my kids (Jon and Kate) and it saddens me to see this happening……….but it is still up to them not the public and newspaper’s and the brother and his wife, or the brother of the girl that Jon was supposedly seen with to give out this info………shame shame on them.no matter what they think and feel, shame on them………..let’s keep positive and pray for the best………my good thoughts are that they will work ahrd to stay together.

262. Vanessa Jewitt, on May 22nd, 2009 at 5:42 am Said:

     Hi, I’m a mother of two, we watch your show every week. I know in tough times i watched your show and thought if you can do it, then what i’m doing as a mom can’t be that bad. My husband and i admire you both and we wish you well and hope for your family’s sake that you can through this and if you love each other you want to fight to keep it.

263. Liya, on May 22nd, 2009 at 9:15 am Said:

     JON&KATE PLUS 8, has been an all time favorite of mine….I havent always been a fan i didnt even know such a reality show existed, but after seeing it for the first time about a year and a half ago i watch it every chance I get. I love watching how the family shows how much they love and care for each other. And to see how Jon and Kate have pulled through 5yrs of having their babies in their lives is inspirational.They have inspired me, to keep going, to try harder, and that nomatter how tough things get with the kids, to always find a brighter side of things. Yes they need to work on a respect between them and yes the kids can be a lil rowdy at time, and can use a lil more discipline, I have two little boys and its hard enough on me to control them, so I can imagine how hard it is for Jon and Kate, but kids are kids and nomatter what we go through they are the light of our eyes. Now lately whats been hurting me the most, is the fact that this family has been attacked, with accusations of Jon and Kate both having an affair. Jon with some school teacher and Kate with the families body guard. Now Im noone to judge but in my opinion I dont think its true. They have both spoken out denying all accusations and the paparazzi and news headlines and other people have done nothing but critisize and ruin the reputation of the loving family they are. Its sad to see how some people are enjoying the pain, discomfort, and humiliation they are putting this family through. Not one person, including the victems family members have stopped to think that they arent just hurting Jon and Kate they are hurting the 8 little ones that are in the middle of all this mess. If there’s going to be a divorce, who knows but i really hope not, if there’s one thing I’ve learned in the 21yrs of my life and the 4 n 1/2 of being married is that you should never let anyone come between your family, much less try to ruin it. So to Jon I say stay strong, and try to work things out. Things are hard I understand on the both of you because its not only about you and Kate its about Jon&Kate PLUS 8. You all are a family, and it is hard for a mother when the father takes time off for himself, whether separation or divorce because the thought of a family is all she has in her mind. And to see those thoughts and dreams fall apart is like losing all air in her atmosphere, we cant survive. You are her husband and noone can change that only you. To Kate I say stay strong, I know how hard it is when you find out such shocking things about your husband. In your case they are just words, and it is said the accusations arent true. In mine they were, but Im still here fighting to keep my family together and both you and Jon were the inspiration for that. My husband and I have worked things out, we are starting a new and fresh life away from everything and everyone that has tried to shut us down. Things are hard to understand when the image of the perfect husband has been shattered but all that can be fixed. Know this you and Jon have gone through many things and In each problem that has come up you all have managed to pull through. You’re married, you are his wife and the mother of his 8 beautiful children, no other woman can ever top that. No other woman can ever take the place that you have, and if one ever managed to take your place they will NEVER be able to reach your level. Those are some things that I have learned and the hard way, yes im young but I see and understand my surroundings. I see and try to understand all points of view. To the both of you I truly hope things work out, because no family should be torn apart, especially not because of accusations or rumors. And no child should have to sit and watch how mommy and daddy are growing apart especially not because of things said by heartless people who are only thinking of ways to destroy a good and loving family. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to the 10 of you, I truly hope things work out!!

264. kort, on May 22nd, 2009 at 2:37 pm Said:

     This family is a joke, plain and simple. And that witch of a woman is to blame
     blech, disgusting work of art

265. Karen, on May 22nd, 2009 at 3:50 pm Said:

     Let’s face it…If Kate is doing everything for her kids, than why not stop doing the show? It can not be easy for those children to see magazine covers with their parent’s faces plastered all over of them (especially the older girls who can read).
     Kate and Jon are shameful. They used their children to make money. If that is good parenting than I am at a lost at what our society has become.

266. Penny, on May 22nd, 2009 at 4:26 pm Said:

     I used to love watching the show, sadly the last episode I watched happened to be the one where they put the solar panels on the house and I was just so disgusted with Kate and her whole attitude and how illmannered she was.

     It’s so apparent that she’s started to get too big for her boots and being in the public eye has most certainly gone to her head.

     I love the kids, love watching their innocent quirks and sillies, wish we could continue to watch that without listening to Kate put down her husband.

     Oh and just one other thing I wish Kate would learn and thats IT’S OKAY FOR KIDS TO GET DIRTY once in a while!

267. Jess, on May 22nd, 2009 at 7:04 pm Said:

     i love jon and kate plus 8<3 and ill never stop!!! i dont care what anyone says<333 i love them!!! there the best! i look up to them! kate is doing such a great job..and jon amazing! there awesome! i have pics everywhere of them!!! LOVE THEM SOOOOOOOO MUCH!

268. GrammyB, on May 22nd, 2009 at 7:53 pm Said:

     Although I am not a regular watcher of the show or a reader or tabloids, I wonder where all the ‘child experts’ are and where their objectivity is regarding the raising of these children. That Dr. Phil fella certainly isn’t ‘telling it like it is” and getting real in this case!
     Certainly no one could ever think that having children on ‘parade’ like animals in a zoo could ever be in their best interest. What I assume is the best footage is to me emotional abuse by the mother (Kate). She appears more interested in having memories and pictures of the children being happy–even if forced or bribed with treats. These trips taken for the series never seem to be enjoyed by the children and don’t appear to be age appropriate.
     Early episodes state she quit her once a week job to be with the children and now have progressed to book tours, media events and other activities that seem to be her main priority.
     The lack of involvement by both their families has to be determinental to the children. It would seem that Aunt Jodie and Uncle Kevin are it. Doesn’t that send a red flag up to anyone?
     I would be more at ease if I thought Kate were acting and that in real life was perhaps a loving christian wife and mother. What I see is a very sick controlling woman who displays cruel behavior toward her husband and the children. What a terrible example she is setting for her children. Twenty years hence I can picture a very lonely woman on Mother’s Day.
     Just how is she different that that Nadia person? In my mind–they are both guilty of child abuse. Just why would anyone think of her a role model? Is she a kind loving mother? Does anyone see the constant screaming and agressiveness of the children a symptom of wounded little souls?
     Were that woman my daughter in law–I would hope divorce court was the next episode.

269. Casy, on May 22nd, 2009 at 11:08 pm Said:

     i think jon is plain stupid. if he really loved you then why would he cheat on you. you probably want to work it out but come on, he is gonna do it again. i am not tryin to be mean but seriousley college girls i mean come on! i know its probably hard taking care of the 8 kids by yourself. if you dont get back together then i wondering how your gonna tell your kids?

270. jazzlynn, on May 22nd, 2009 at 11:13 pm Said:

     your awesome your my hero i love your kids and show !!!!

271. kort, on May 22nd, 2009 at 11:45 pm Said:

     yeah, right

272. Silvia, on May 23rd, 2009 at 11:06 am Said:

     I’m really sad for everything that’s been happening!! But tv shows are like that, and more when they’re not close to God…hope they realize what’s the truth and what’s not!!!! May God Bless them and their kids!!!!!!!

273. 7up, on May 23rd, 2009 at 3:40 pm Said:

     QueenBee Katie fires a nurse because she found her washing her hands at the kitchen sink instead of the bathroom…… Wait a minute!!! This sick puppy brushes her kids teeth at the dining room table and brushes their hair in the kitchen (well, at least she USED to, now I’m sure her no-nanny nanny does it….)
     For god’s sake, do a disappearing act you moron!

274. Lori, on May 23rd, 2009 at 8:10 pm Said:

     Dear Jon & Kate,

     My family’s prayers are with you!!! You bring us so much joy!!! There aren’t many couples that love their kids like you demonstrate!!!
     I pray that God will fill you with renewed love!!!

     Lori

275. CECE, on May 24th, 2009 at 6:53 pm Said:

     Jon & Kate, Take it from somone who has been threw the DIVORCE with kids, The only oned that suffer & carry’s the luggage of the realationship are the children. How you are feeling emotionaly x’s that by 8 & that is emotional luggage the children are carrying. Hope this is a thought for you, you are not alone.

276. Anne, on May 24th, 2009 at 9:11 pm Said:

     I was listening to Jon, telling the reporter that he feels like he’s in jail/prison…well he needs a wake-up call! Lets see how he handles the house (cleaning…and taking care of the kids for the entire day!!! As a matter of fact…do it for a month…Bet you don’t last a week…LOL When Jon comes home….it’s like a BIG sigh and relief when Kate sees him walk through the door. Let Kate go back to nursing….Jon, and you stay home with the kids. Taking care of six children that are the same age isn’t easy. You need to give verbal praisesonce in a while to your WIFE!!

277. Tracy, on May 24th, 2009 at 10:27 pm Said:

     I have watched this show since it first came on. I have watched Kate put her husband down in every show. He tries to help her but she always seems to want it HER WAY!

     She never lets him have it his way. These are children.. Not little breakable doll’s. Let them play, Let them get dirty…They are Washable.

     I have been watching their marathon this weekend and when kate had a break down because one of the little girl’s got ice cream on her shirt at Disney.. IT WAS SCAREY! Then took the ice cream from all of them..

     I mean let these kid’s lead normal life’s.. They don’t seem to be able to be true fun kid’s.

     I was like that with my first child. Always had wipes in my hands and always wiping his hand’s,changing his clothes…Never let him play in the yard..But finally I reallized he needs to be a kid, and kid’s love to get dirty…

     The older girl’s are old enough to understand what is going on with their parents. It sad because I feel this is not for the kid’s, It is about the adults… They need to focus on their children and not their selfs…

     I am sorry if I was in their shoe’s and my spouse asked me to give it up and start living their life out of the show and just be normal people and raise their children, ot split up then I am sorry I would pick my family..

     But then again, We all know how the tv thing works this just might be a deploy to get everyone in their little world for better rating’s and if that is what it is then shame on TLC and shame on these childrens parents for putting their children in the middle of all this madness…

278. Stephanie, on May 25th, 2009 at 8:15 am Said:

     It is LIFE! We all have our ups and downs..unfortunately there lives are for all of us to see and judge. That is the price they pay for there televised life. Hope it all works out for them…Remember we are all human beings and not one of us is perfect!

279. Jessica, on May 25th, 2009 at 12:41 pm Said:

     Ummm all this hype about Jon cheating on Kate is nothing but a lie to get people all hyped up to see what is going on and to start watching the show. I had no idea who Jon and Kate were till all the publicity they were receiving when Jon was being blamed for cheating. People he did NOT cheat, lol, it’s all planned out to get you people all rowdy. And is it working? Sure is

280. Doug, on May 25th, 2009 at 1:16 pm Said:

     Top 6 Names of New Jon & Kate Show:

     6. Jon & Kate Litigate
     5. Jon Plus 8 Lawyers
     4. Jon Plus Jail Bait
     3. Jon Fornicate
     2. Jon Out Late Minus Kate
     1. Jon With Hard 8”

281. Derrick, on May 25th, 2009 at 2:38 pm Said:

     Dear Jon and Kate

     First off Jon, I am so sorry things are going rough, you seem like a very good person and you help a lot of people. Your a good father and your children love you. I dont think he cheated its just media want to make a nice juicy story.

     Kate your a loving mother, keep it up dont ever give up because they wont give up on you

282. Gold Digger, on May 25th, 2009 at 3:43 pm Said:

     Kate is nothing more then a lying, gold digging, cheating BITCH. She treats Jon like crap. Kate, please tell me the bible verse that covers you being a lying, cheating, gold digging BITCH. You are such a good gold digging christian….

283. patty, on May 25th, 2009 at 4:56 pm Said:

     Why is it all about jon and what he did, how about kate having affair? Does anyone else wonder why kate would need a body guard, she wrote a childrens book that was only suppose to be for her children, so says the loyal kate, whose living off of her childrens money.Maybe jon was set up, because she now has her million dollar house. Kate stop being a gold digger and looking for things for nothing. There are so many other people in the world that need help. you should be ashame of yourself. And then to complain about everything, thats sad. KATE GET OVER YOURSELF!

284. Kel, on May 25th, 2009 at 6:49 pm Said:

     Yes, everyone who has watched this show knows Kate is bossy and very pushy. From what we know she has always been. She likes things done her way and thats just the way she is. I personally love this show and I hope Jon and Kate stay together. Everyone should just leave Kate alone. She is her own person, and she is grown. Kate runs her family the way she wants. Jon would like the show cut off. I personaly wouldn’t like for it to go off but if that’s what it takes to save their marriage, the so be it……

285. ash, on May 25th, 2009 at 8:38 pm Said:

     uhm i just wanted to reply to something someone posted. i dont know whats ging on with them. its their life and the most important thing is the kids.. but the fact that they never give is a lie… maybe you should watch the show sometime… the visited the childrens hospital an donate old stuff… they have never asked for anything that was given to them.. people just have compassion or a family of 8. you cant blame them for that.

286. JENNIFER, on May 25th, 2009 at 9:11 pm Said:

     JON THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. I AM SPEAKING FOR EXPERIENCE YALL NEED TO WORK IT OUT, IF IT TAKES CANCELLING THE SHOW I REALLY ADVISE YALL TO THAT THAN GETTING A DIVORSE. COUNCALING( IM NOT A GOOD SPELLER), TIME ALONE TO GATHER THOUGHTS…..WHAT EVER IN TAKES!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS YALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

287. Ellanara, on May 25th, 2009 at 10:31 pm Said:

     Ok, I, like most of you, have watched the show from the very first special on TLC and I loved it. I don’t think any of really know why we like it, it’s such a great show.

     Now, I just got done watching the new episode and Kate was completely different! You could tell she was so worried about the kids and just wanted them to know she loves them. It was awkward when Jon finally showed up in his sports car, but I felt so sorry for her. When they asked the two about their relationship, Jon kept talking about the kids, what an ass. I can tell Kate really wants to make it work and really doesn’t want him to leave, but he acts like he doesn’t even care. He seemed like it was no big deal that his marriage is destroyed because of him.

     I understand getting turned off when your wife is all nagging, but it happens, if love and marriage was easy everyone would do it. Jon needs to realize what he’s losing. A woman who isn’t perfect, but does everything she can possibly do to support and take care of her family. Kate is trying, you can see it on this new episode, she laughed so much! While yes, I think it was a bit of a cover up of her pain, she really did seem to be trying to let the kids be kids. She didn’t care if they got dirty or wiped their hands or anything, she just let do whatever which is what a mother of six five years old should do. She is trying people (and Jon) and that’s all she can do. Try to be a better person and a better mother, but think what she’s going through.

288. Jenn, on May 25th, 2009 at 10:33 pm Said:

     I feel bad for Jon…all those years of verbal abuse and how she treated him at the kids 5th…bullcrap. Terrible premier. She doesnt do all the work by the way, she has TONS of behind the scene help. Without Jon and it will be “Kate and her EGO plus 8″. NOT worth watching AT ALL! Look at how much she has changed….total ego witch now.

289. Orvus, on May 25th, 2009 at 10:39 pm Said:

     Kate and her EGO plus 8….HA HA I like it! She has changes so much and it really seems like she is pointing it all to him. Poor Jon. Why wouldnt Kate give up her book signing tour to save their marriage? Oh yeah, she is sleeping with her bodygaurd…I forgot! Shame on her, putting celebrity first.

290. Jenn, on May 25th, 2009 at 10:41 pm Said:

     Anne….you didnt listen very well. HE QUIT HIS JOB 2 YEARS AGO TO STAY HOME AND WATCH THE KIDS WHILE SHE DID BOOK TOURS AND SLEPT WITH HER BODYGAURD.

     Not to Mention, SHE HAS ALWAYS HAD BEHIND THE SEENS HELP. Lets not be blind people

291. Pam, on May 25th, 2009 at 10:51 pm Said:

     I watched the show tonight and just felt completely sad. Kate says that parents of multiples have a higher divorce rate, couple that with the reality show and what did they expect?

     She is controlling, and he seems disconnected at times. Never hear them say “I love you” to each other, although they do say it to their kids.

     Divorce may be the end for them, but the kids will live with it forever. Hope they quit the show for the sake of their marriage and kids, and go to church. The family that prays together stays together…trite but true.

292. lety, on May 26th, 2009 at 12:04 am Said:

     anyways, Jon is such an asshole i mean what the hell, does he have shit for brains or what, i mean seriously grow up dude, you have 8 kids, and while poor kate is dealing with the kids and getting ready for the kids party, he’s out acting like a kid, really nice asshole, anyways i feel sorry for you, . Oh yeah the homewrecker is one fugly biatch, lol!!! Just expressing myself!

293. Brenda, on May 26th, 2009 at 3:19 am Said:

     KATE IS AN OVER-BEARING, COMPLAINING, BELITTLING, BOSSY, BIG – MOUTHED, PSYCHO B#*^H…THAT’S WHY THE 2 OLDER GIRLS ARE SUCH BRATS. HOW CAN JON STAND HER TALKING TO HIM LIKE THAT?? HOW SHAMEFUL. IF THEY AREN’T GETTING A DIVORCE, (AND THIS IS ALL JUST A HOAX)… THEY SHOULD.

294. Rosemarie, on May 26th, 2009 at 5:56 am Said:

     Kate’s attitude at the last episode last eve. was so really annoying. She seems already to have put John out of her life. She was a picture of a woman on her way up without any old husband dragging around.She is now the boss of her world and it really shows. She must have a replacement for John already lined up.I hope he can stand eight children and THE BOSS.I really hope TLC removes the show as none of us need to see a family falling apart.There is enough of that off TV.

295. gaphillips, on May 26th, 2009 at 8:39 am Said:

     I do not enjoy Kate and her behavior. I see where one of the twin, Mady is learning her behavior. Kate is teaching Mady to be bratty, hateful and to get her way even with obnoxious outbursts. Is that kid ever happy? Cara is calm and cool like Jon. Although Jon may not be an angel…..Kate is far worse. Jon seems more interested in his kids welfare than Kate. Kate is a control freak and it shows. She yells at him for breathing too hard. She is constantly nagging, ordering him around, giving him direction and putting him down on camera…..can you imagine what he goes through off camera? Being on a STAGED show like this is not entertaining and it is not how real families are. Kate needs to take a step back, get her home in order and actually raise these kids without the assistance of “helpers” and let Jon be a father who can make decisions for his kids. Anyone ever ask themselves how a mother of 8 can look picture perfect every second of the day and have such an immaculate house? She is not doing it by herself people. To hide all Kate’s help from the camera and pretend she does it all herself is wrong. If she is estranged from her family one should ask themselves why? Could it be no one can stand to witness her cruel and discusting behavior. It’s no wonder Jon is cracking under the pressure of it all.

296. Patty, on May 26th, 2009 at 9:01 am Said:

     I watched the maraton over this past Memorial Day weekend and was reminded of how horribly Kate treats Jon. The poor man can’t open his mouth without her either belittleing, bullying, embarrassing and/or yelling at Jon. No matter what he says or does, she finds fault with him. I am sorry if he felt he had to have an affair, and I truly hope it’s not true. He seems like a kind, gentle man, who loves his children and wants what is best for them. Kate truly wants what is best for HER. She referred to herself as ‘The world according to Kate’, in one episode and giggled about it. I don’t think there is any joke to that. I believe it IS ‘The world according to Kate’ or there is no world at all. What they are doing to these children is unreal. No parents should treat their children in this matter. It is abuse. Plain and simple. Shame on both of them.

297. Nicole, on May 26th, 2009 at 9:51 am Said:

     If the Doggers (the family with 18 children) can run their house with out “nannies” so can Kate, but if I was Jon I would take the children and get a divorce. All Jon has to do is play some of their shows of Kate being nasty all the time for a judge, and that judge will favor Jon

298. ISP, on May 26th, 2009 at 11:58 am Said:

     How dare someone call their kids BRATS?!!! We are so judgmental to others and when we make poor decisions, we want empathy???(wow) Kate does have qualities that are poor and need to be changed but how many of us can say we love everything about ourselves and we don’t need to change anything??? New Flash, if you think you are perfect then you are living in a fantasy world. The reality is, we all have things that no one knows about; we learn to guard that which we know is not good from others. However, on their show there is no hiding because of the cameras; then we judge them for not living up to our exceptions of who they should be or become? Jon knew what type of person Kate was before he married her and vice versa. Kate is controlling but she had to be to get things done; I find myself pulling my hair out with 3 kids when I’m not organized- 8 kids I would be a crazy maniac if things wasn’t organized. I think it is nothing wrong with kids being clean??? FYI: I understand why Kate took the Ice cream from the Kids at Disney world; It was hot outside, who wants to hear kids crying about being sticky the whole time and also doctors say when it hot give them water…not something that can make their belly hurt. Change, whether money are not; who can say I look the exact same as I did 5 years ago after I had 6 babies??? no one can…. If you saw the pictures of Kate with just the twins, Kate was fashionable and small. I do think she can stand to gain a few pounds. Exposing their kids, what is the difference between their show and the Duggar’s show, Table for 12 or Torri and Dean show? As far as cheating go’s , YOU DON’T CHEAT.(period) I don’t care what that person does, if you don’t want to be with them you LEAVE. ANYONE who cheats is a COWARD. Then for people to say, He should divorce her because she is a horrid person???(wow) And we wonder why the divorce rate is high; we want the easy way out; let’s not fight to make things better, lets divorce???? You can divorce a person but if there are kids, you still have to deal with that person.

299. 7up, on May 26th, 2009 at 12:20 pm Said:

     Put this ridiculous show out of it’s misery once and for all, that would be the kind thing to do….

300. Kim, on May 26th, 2009 at 1:30 pm Said:

     Kate has had her hand’s full with all those kid’s, but if she’s a true christian she’ll put her husband and children before herself. She need’s to see that money is the root of all evil and it hasn’t done her any favor’s.
     I know their happier day’s will always be the ones when they just had the babies and the luxuries weren’t in sight. Striving tends make people humble.
     Kate you need to step down off your pedistal and put your husband and kid’s first .The vow’s that you renued didn’t mean a thing if you keep hiding behind this new so called career of yours. Go home and make your family priority. Young kid’s need their Mother at home, and your kid’s need thier family, including their aunts and uncles and Grandparent’s. Whether your mad at them or not don’t take those people from your kid’s. They love them.I hope you do the right thing .

301. Courtney, on May 26th, 2009 at 2:15 pm Said:

     I think that this is EXTRMELY sad. Everyone loves them. Really I think that they should work everything out. Tell eachother the truth and then forgive eachother. How could you have an affair knowing you have eight children.
     Another thing is that, I think paparazzi really needs to get a life. Does it make you feel good waking up in the morning knowing you screwed someones life. You follow people around all day and take pictures and videos, you hide in trees and bushes. Paparazzi is ridiculous.
     They love eachother, and always will. Right now they need to come together for their kids and realize that the do love eachother. Otherwise their kids will have sucky lifes.

302. DAN, on May 26th, 2009 at 3:20 pm Said:

     LOOK PEOPLE I LIVE JUST DOWN THE ROAD IN PA FROM THIS WITCH. SOMEBODY POOR WATER ON HER. SHE NOT ONLY TREATS HER HUBBY POOR BUT REALLY IS NOT LIKED BY LOCALS AT ALL. SHE WANTS THE PUBLIC TO BOW DOWN TO HER AND THE COUNTY IS NOW SICK OF HER. WAKE UP PEOPLE THE SHOW SUCKS AND SO DOES SHE. THINK ABOUT IT TAKE IN OUR AREA OF PA DUTCH THE AMISH WHO HAVE KID AFTER KID AND WHO CARES ABOUT THE ONE WHO THINKS SHE IS THE QUEEN. PEOPLE ARE LOSING THEIR JOBS EVERYDAY AND YOU HAVE THIS BIMBO GOING AROUND TOWN INTO RESTAURANTS WANTING ATTENTION THINKING SHE IS SOMETHING. HEY KATE WE IN BERKS COUNTY COULD CARE LESS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR PROBLEM. IF IT WAS ME I WOULD OF DUMPED YOU ALONG TIME AGO. PLEASE GO AWAY

303. gummie_bears, on May 26th, 2009 at 6:01 pm Said:

     It’s undeniable that Kate is a shrewd business lady but she doesn’t seem to have anything to fall back on when all this fame vanishes…F.Y.I. This fame isn’t gonna last FOREVER and the money is gonna go with it!! She should consider working it out with Jon because he has been there before the filming, he’s worth staying with.

     On the show’s premiere, she said that “marriages with multiples are three times more likely to divorce…I thought we would beat that.” Yea, you can be beat that but you have to stop filming..that’s where all stress is obstructing progress. People need alone time together to communicate better!! She too stubborn to realize that abd shes blind by all the fame and money.

304. Nicky, on May 26th, 2009 at 9:43 pm Said:

     Kids or not, if the marriage isn’t working get the hell out. For a married couple who have kids and stay together and don’t get along that can harm the children and the person who wants to get out more. The two older girls are acting like brats because of Kate. I agree with Dan, Kate please go away! You are a horrid, greedy, worthless, cunt. Go sleep with your bodyguard some more. Oh please the paparazzi are only doing their job, they are not to blame for anything.

305. kapaccino, on May 27th, 2009 at 12:30 am Said:

     I feel for you Dan, I really do.
     I hate to admit it but when I hear or read anything about Pennsylvania I associate it with the Gosselin’s and cringe.
     Too bad you can’t get a petition signed and run her ass out of there, just as long as she doesn’t show up in Seattle

306. Carrie, on May 27th, 2009 at 2:01 am Said:

     All of this really makes me mad. I hate how people tear into Kate and bash her and jump to John’s defense. There are definate times that Kate was not so nice to John, but how do you know that when they were alone, Jon wasnt dishing it right back? He is a grown man. He is a father. If he doesnt like how is life his going he has the option to change, He choose to go on the show right along with Kate. He choose to have those kids. Jon wasn’t forced into this situation. He chose to go with it. BTW- Everyone has tore into Kate and about how money she is, but I saw Jon’s car in the season premier. Looks like he is enjoying it also. Jon needs to man up and be a leader for his family. Quit puting how his life isnt the way he wants and do something about it. And for all of the people who talk about how the kids are victims because they argue in front of them….Lets follow you around for a month with a camera and see how picture perfect your marriage and your parental skills are. ANYONE offered a show that would provide money for your family would take the opportunity. Giving something up that provides financial security is really hard thing. I just wish people would stop their “tisk tisking” and the couple. To be honest…no one knows what went on behind closed doors.

307. Betsy, on May 27th, 2009 at 5:02 am Said:

     I agree with all that is being said, Now that the kids are 5 and 8 don’t you think enough is enough, Let them grow up in a somewhat normal life. As for their marriage they had the renewal televised on TV. They wanted to renew their marriage,what was that about? Just so they could get a trip to Hawaii? Did she go with her body guard? It takes two to make a marriage work. So what about Kate?

308. britt, on May 27th, 2009 at 2:37 pm Said:

     kate treats him like dirt anyway.

309. Marlene, on May 28th, 2009 at 11:12 am Said:

     Kate is what is making all of this happen.The show going down the drain,Plus her husband allegedly cheating on her.It was bound to happen.The way she smacks him around and her bitchy attitude.Did she expect them to be together forever with her being like that.It’s true the children know no better but to follow there mothers footsteps and do what they think is normal Being annoying and bratty.If I was Jon I wouldnt even cheat i’d just get a divorce and take my kids.I can’t stand her and I don’t live with her,I could imagine him.That’s why he seems so depressed. I wish them luck but in my opinion Kate needs to get some help then maybe they will work out.

310. Mick, on May 28th, 2009 at 11:39 am Said:

     All of you that are making bad remarks towards Kate maybe if you all had that many kids the same age you would be a little bitchy at times too. She is a great mom and she is very organized. How would you all like every move you made to be talked about by the world. I bet none of you are perfect and if you think you are try raising all those kids for a week. Try walking in someones elses shoes before you go shooting off your mouth

311. Annie, on May 28th, 2009 at 4:51 pm Said:

     Jon and Kate need to STOP THE SHOW and work on their marriage. They can survive this and they need to think of the children before themselves.

     The down side is – how do they support themselves without the show. They have learned a really hard lesson – everyone is fallible and everyone can recover.

     Kate needs to get some counseling and Jon needs to stand up to her and take charge.

     Good luck to Jon and Kate – they need all the help and understanding we can give them.

312. ginger, on May 28th, 2009 at 6:56 pm Said:

     Kate is a b*!ch and all the fame has gone to her head. Control control control ,. Its all about the money its not about your kids. i dont like you kate. Jon leave her now. You will be much better off with out her.

313. DEJA PONDER, on May 28th, 2009 at 8:30 pm Said:

     JON,S CHEATING KATE HE IS A LIAR WE LOVE YOU KATE YOUR THE BEST MOM EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

314. elga gouin, on May 28th, 2009 at 9:54 pm Said:

     Helloooooooooooooooooooooo….When your kids feels bad because of the parents it is maybe time to stop…even is you will loose money. Helloooooooooooooooooooooooo…Poor beautiful kids…it is sad.

315. Noreen, on May 29th, 2009 at 2:29 pm Said:

     This marriage has been in trouble for years in part because of Kate. She is a harsh, judgmental control freak who has been putting her craziness on her husband and children for years. Her trophy is the one and only Maddy, a surly brat like her mother.

     Also, the marriage has been been failing because it lacked the support of friends, family, and/or religion.

     # Friends–Do they have any? How many people in this world would Kate like? How many people could like HER? You never see any friends in the programs. From posts by some people in Pennsylvania, it seems the Gosselins alienated many people in their area by their greed and rudeness.

     # Family–About two years ago, if I recall correctly, both Jon and Kate said something about neither of them getting along with or seeing their families. How sad! Families can give you the love, support, and reality checks no one else can. (Jon apparently is reconciled with his mother–that is, if I AM remembering that program correctly and if he ever actually WAS alienated from her.) (Look, I don’t want to start NEW rumors!)

     # Religion–They don’t “attend” church so much as they arrive to *lecture* and push their book and make money. I’ve never seen this family show any awareness of religion in their home life–no nighttime prayers, grace before meals, or the like.

     The new home they chose was not surprising! Isolated on a huge tract of land, the big, bloated house mirrors the distance between these two and the rest of the world. I believe Kate was the driving force in repelling others and isolating this couple. I think Jon drifted along out of loyalty to his wife.

     Ah, but now, . . . I think they are both waking up to the idea that their show might not be as interesting once the younger kids are in kindergarten. TLC might cancel the show! ! All that money and fame will go away! ! The gravy train will leave the station! !

     I think Kate is so freaked out that she’s launching a new career RIGHT NOW, while she’s still on tv. (Hey, the “non-nanny” can handle any broken bones.) Her only goal is ca$h and lots of it.

     And I think Jon is taking stock of all that he lost and gained through his marriage to a mentally ill woman. I don’t think he’s the type to have an affair, and I don’t think he did.

     Oh, I read an earlier post here: “Jon Plus 8 Minus Kate!” LOL

316. 55chev, on May 29th, 2009 at 11:02 pm Said:

     Kate Gosselin, do you NOT get it?? Nobody can stand you – you’re like the annoying house guest who doesn’t know when to leave…
     The majority has spoken and we want you to GO, the sooner the better
     Oh, and just so you know: you were never cute, you were never funny, and you need to take some of your ‘hard-earned’ cash and buy yourself a good push-up bra…
     bye-bye, and don’t forget your broom

317. whitt 4-life, on May 29th, 2009 at 11:02 pm Said:

     how could you do that to Kate and your 8 children .Do you know how much child support that is. You are to much of an a hole to figure that out.Kate, Cara, Mady ,Alexis, Leah ,Hannah ,Collin ,Joel, Aaden really loves you. I still cant figure out why you cheated on her. All Deanna Hummel wants is to get her hands on some of that money.Even though what you and Kate are going through inside Kate really loves you.If she didn’t love you she would have never had eight kids with you.How could Kate cheat on you for her bodyguard.Of course if she was traveling on the road away from home with no one to talk to who you think she would talk to.All I am saying is try and work things out for the sake of your children.I really was a big fan of Jon and Kate plus ei8ht,but since all of this drama is going on i am not really into it anymore.P.S. Try and work it out.Screw Deanna Hummel and her no good ways.Good-bye

318. Annie Su, on May 29th, 2009 at 11:26 pm Said:

     Jon and Kate please please stay together!! I am from a divorced family and it is so hard not to have your parents together, so please do it not only for yourselves but for your kids. My husband and I will be praying for yall. “For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy.” 1 Corinthians 14

319. gwen macleod, on May 30th, 2009 at 12:30 am Said:

     Dear Jon and Kate,
     Thank you so very much for sharing your wonderful family. Your children are happy, healthy, absolutely darling children and,,,,,I think you as parents are great too.
     I’m so sorry for what you’re going through right now. I for one, don’t read the rags nor do I keep the negative TV shows on.
     Marriages go up and down. You two have had so much stress for so long and I think it’s normal for you to have some problems just when everything could finally be a little easier for you.
     My Husband passed away two years ago. Our fiftieth Wedding Anniversary would otherwise be this year. It seemed to me our marriage would always go through a difficult time at the end of times of struggle.
     Look what you both as a couple have accomplished. Try to get some time alone,,,,get some help,,,,ignore the sleasebags who are negative about you.
     I will pray for both of you. I’m sorry for what you’re going through.
     Love and prayers

320. Laura A., on May 30th, 2009 at 9:06 am Said:

     Yes it is a fact that SOME married people (not just men) cheat. But they do this for two reasons. 1. Many men do not feel appreciated and dumped on. 2. They are just plain stupid and do not think with their brains. If Jon did cheat, it was because of number 1. There is no good reason for cheating and it is morally wrong but its obvious to me (Im not a huge fan, but I do watch when I catch it) that these two need some major counceling on how to deal with eachother. As far as the way they treat their kids, I think they do a great job. Kids throw tantrums THATS WHAT THEY DOOOOOO FOR CRYING OUT LOUD. If anyone knows there are marital problems, it is these two. With that many kids Kate doesnt have time to baby her husband WHO the heck would be in the mood???? I really hope they work it out, this is not the average family but I dont think the damage is irreversible.

321. Kitty, on May 30th, 2009 at 2:04 pm Said:

     I feel sorry for Jodi. She really got screwed. TLC should be ashamed of theirselves. They should drop them like a hot potato. She is a witch and he is a wimp and the children should be taken away from them. They are obnoxious, especially Maddy and they need to learn manners. I do feel sorry for them because their parents greed ruined their family. Now how are they going to pay for their 1.3 million dollar house.

322. kel, on May 30th, 2009 at 4:08 pm Said:

     55 chev, LOL!!!!!!!!!!!
     The show sooooooooooooooooooooo needs to crash and burn
     TLC needs to go back to being the LEARNING channel instead of spewing out this garbage
     Kate gosselin: what goes around comes around, remember that and learn how to treat people for once in your life. Your tears are fake like you

323. catalina gianni, on June 1st, 2009 at 9:00 pm Said:

     how do you people find the time to read and look up all this stuff about these people you dont even know? Who are you to judge them? I’m sure none of you yell at your kids either, right? and i bet you dont have 6 of them. do you not realize these are actulal people? how can you talk so horribly about these people you dont even know? If a camera followed you around all the time would you always look like such a great person to people who dont know you? with all the stress of dealing with all these strangers who are not so perfect themselves critizing them is it a wonder that they are going through marital problems? Stop being jealous, judgmental stalkers and get a freakin life? dont you have kids to be a mother to? where are they when you’re spending aLL this time watching t.v and reading crap on the internet and magazines?

324. Sarah, on June 1st, 2009 at 9:25 pm Said:

     Two suggestions for John and Kate:
     1. Get rid of those cameras in the house and elsewhere, except on the children’s birthday.
     2. Get marital counselling.

     You have lived in a fish bowl with 8 children; I’m amazed you’ve retained your sanity.
     Your marriage and family are too, too precious to cast aside. Now that the children are older, work on your marriage–it’s worth it!! God bless

325. kel, on June 2nd, 2009 at 12:32 am Said:

     GREAT bikini pix QueenKate!!!! Except you should have worn one of your kid’s bibs to cover up, nobody wants to look at your male gym teacher body.
     Ugly on the outside as well as the inside, surprise surprise…..
     Cheers!!!

326. sandy, on June 2nd, 2009 at 1:44 am Said:

     i think the gosselins need to fight for their marriage whatever it takes. but i have to say kate has changed in many ways i always felt inspired by her organization and ability to shop and feed her kids organic on a budget. but now all you see is her in her fancy clothes and see them on thier fancy trips what happened to the sweat pants and t-shirts kate? and jon smartin up the grass is not greener on the other side love your kids and try to find a way back to your wife you both need to make time for each other and make each other a priorty . the kids will survive with out you for one vacation!

327. Fran, on June 3rd, 2009 at 4:42 pm Said:

     Jon would not have left Kate if she had not treated like a DOG !!!

328. your momma, on June 3rd, 2009 at 6:40 pm Said:

     kate needs to lose more weight. she needs to cover up her surgery scars too.

329. showfan, on June 3rd, 2009 at 7:26 pm Said:

     Dear Kate,
     i think that your family is awesome and no i am not a suck up i just think that you shouldnt listen to what everyody else in the world media PAPARAZZI are saying either i know that together you and jon can get your problems and i hope that you can write a book so that the public knows what is going on and they dont start making up more nasty rumors like they already have.

330. mrmatt, on June 4th, 2009 at 12:57 pm Said:

     she’s on the beach looking off into the distance as if asking ‘oh where oh where is my waist?’
     This lady isn’t even on the D-List, she’s on NO list….ick

331. Penny, on June 5th, 2009 at 4:40 pm Said:

     I pray that the Lord gives them the strength to get through this difficult time in their marriage and that they reflect on the vows they made to each other and to God and that they put their faith in God and lean on his guidance and strength to rebuild their marriage. Amen.

332. nikki, on June 5th, 2009 at 7:30 pm Said:

     WHO cares change the channel

333. haylie d, on June 5th, 2009 at 10:36 pm Said:

     OMG EVERYONE LEAVE KATE AND JON ALONE THEY R JUST TRYING TO LIVE THEIR LIFE AND R NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG TO THEIR KIDS. LOOK AT ALL THOSE FAMOUS KID ACTORS WHO R BEING FOLLWED BY PAPARAZI 24/7 NOONE’S TALKING BAD ABOUT THEM

     LEAVE JON AND KATE ALONE AND SUPPORT THEM NOW

334. mrmatt, on June 6th, 2009 at 1:07 pm Said:

     Pennsylvania Hillbillies, no-class trash grifters……hmmm, maybe THAT’S why people are talking ‘bad’ about them – ya think??!!

335. Mrs. McGinty, on June 7th, 2009 at 9:47 am Said:

     I never actually watched this show but can’t seem to stay away from the gossip about them online. I feel a little sorry for them. I understand they went into this because they thought it would be a good way to provide a solid, worry-free financial future for their suddenly-huge family, and from that aspect, they were right. The show made them into millionaires in the present and will let them give their kids every possible advantage and comfort in life without worries about money looming over their heads. No worries about paying for the best education, medical care, summer camp – anyone with even two or three kids knows what a huge gift that is.

     No one – not the parents, not the producers – could have possibly foreseen the other side of the coin, the fact that all their dirty laundry would also be aired in public, and no one could have predicted that the public would become so ravenously hungry for every crumb of news and/or dirt, and put them under a magnifying glass 24/7. After all, basically, they aren’t all that fascinating. Who could predict that this fairly uninteresting couple would be on the cover of every tabloid mag? She’s a bit of a shrew, and he’s a bit of a wimp, who doesn’t know five couples like that living within three or four houses down your own street. They aren’t movie stars, they aren’t glamorous, they don’t have witty things to say – who would have dreamed they’d hypnotize the American public?

     And now they’re paying the price, and they’ll still pay another installment later on when the kids grow up and we (or they) will learn how living in the public eye affected their personalities, not on the kid-age level, but on the deeper level in the development of the character they carry into adulthood. It’s not a normal upbringing, to be in front of the cameras and on TV so much, no matter how much they may try to shelter the kids’ more private moments. It’s got to be affecting them, and the full outcome will only be known when they grow up.

     So I feel kind of sorry for them. They achieved an important goal, for sure. Economic security is not something to be taken lightly, and they definitely got that for their kids. But they’re going to pay a high price, and I wonder if, at the end of the day, they”ll regret their choice.

336. mrmatt, on June 8th, 2009 at 11:19 pm Said:

     Probably they wouldn’t have received all of this publicity had they shown an ounce of gratitude. And quite frankly, I’ve never in my LIFE known a person even remotely similar to Kate Gosselin, not even close….it’s like this woman has no heart or soul. She’s just a shell of a person whose main priority is no other than herself. Gimme Gimme Gimme, like society owes her. For what? Popping out a litter?
     I can’t stand these people

337. dolores, on June 11th, 2009 at 8:41 am Said:

     Kate I watched your program, and it is so disgraceful to see how you degrade people, insult Jon every chance you get,and put them down. I don’t see you hug and kiss your children, it’s all about you. I have seen you on your previous programs sitting on the sofa, and how you put Jon down. This is all about you and having the perfect outfit on, shopping in 4″ heels. Everyone has to have the perfect clothes.
     You’re children are going to be watching this later in life and they are going to be seeing exactly who you are.

     This was a reality show, now it is acting, and it is not avery good thing for your children. You Kate are all about money, for yourself. How much time are you actually spending with your children, in between all your own personal fantacies. Yes you do go to celebrity events, thats because you are apart of it.

     You’re interested in one person, Kate, yourself, get off the air, so your children don’t get hurt anymore, if you’re really a good Mom, and take care of personal business, these shows are lies, NOT REALITY.

     Dolores

338. gmojica, on June 11th, 2009 at 8:47 am Said:

     I agree Kate Gosselin changed. She went from being the mother who was all about her children to all about her. One thing I do notice is during her interviews, she neglects to accept how horrible she is to Jon. During the interview where clips of Kate yelling at Jon iare discussed, she has an excuse for every single time. Does she notice that she is constantly controlling everything, the camera people, all the helpers at the events they attend and anyone else. If the public were to hear directly from everyone who have worked or been around her (note agreements were signed not to discuss any single thing), It would be interesting who is considered the underdog, the weakling, the husband, who all he wants is his wife and family and not a show.

     Kate when the cameras are gone and all you have are your children. Who do you think you will pay to take care of all them? So you can an enjoy your new found fame, glamour, body and love of yourself. A nanny/helper.

     Please go back to your thoughts of when you first had children. A mommy and a daddy and the children being a family. After everything has left the building all you have left is each other your family.

339. Cheryl, on June 15th, 2009 at 5:29 pm Said:

     I think the whole Jon & Kate show is rediculous. Their children are definently being used for the money and fame. Kate is a spoiled, useless woman who doesn’t deserve these children. She thinks she deserves everything for free, ha! My mother and father actually had to work for a living, something Kate could never lower herself to do.

340. Linda, on June 18th, 2009 at 1:24 am Said:

     I think they are a great family, interesting to watch but I have 6 kids it’s nice to see that I am not the only one with a crazy hectic life.. Anyways my opinion leave them alone, I don’t think they will be getting divorced…I think they will be ending the show after this season as they need to work on their mariage.. Seeing how they just got remarried on the show last season come on would it make sense if they end this in a divorce really????

341. mrmatt, on June 18th, 2009 at 2:50 pm Said:

     Linda: uh, get a CLUE. The entire thing was scripted. Have you been living underneath a rock?

342. jOHN tHOM, on June 18th, 2009 at 4:34 pm Said:

     Just for the record why is it that no one thinks a brother admitting to listening to his sister having sex (supposedly) with Jon creepy?

343. Kellie, on June 22nd, 2009 at 3:57 pm Said:

     Hello. I think John and katie should stay together for ther lives . its about more of there childrens and there marriage. stay togther . stop being a big baby katie and John . you all both are not role modles for your children . grow up now John and Excable Katie .
     Love
     Kellie O’Loughlin

344. netta, on June 22nd, 2009 at 10:19 pm Said:

     I have been watching this show since it first aired and as of today I won’t be watching again. John has serious problems and I don’t think they start with Kate. He needs to seek counciling,seriously.
     Why do people get married anymore? Do you not listen to or ever read your marriage vows?Thes vows are sworn to each other befor GOD,Family,Friends, and they do hold alot of meaning. It just seems people don’t think about what they are promising to do for all eternity. Sure Kate has to be hard to live with,but would it not have been easier to get her alone and talk about what is going on in your head John, seek some marriage counciling, see if you can’t work things out. It appears ,John just decided he wasn’
     t happy anymore so he goes out looking for a different woman or women,who knows for sure! Has there been any talk about counciling or trying to work things out? If ya’ll really want what is best for the family or the kids, I would think you would exhaust all possible avenues before seperating and filing for divorce.
     I, honestly think John is a dead beat and hope he never sees another dime from the show or any of its other revenues and personally would like to see him pay child support .Kate,Please hang in there,you will not always be alone,but maybe John will end up alone and lonely.

345. Connie, on June 23rd, 2009 at 2:29 pm Said:

     I feel sorry for the children in this whole thing. I think the show should be out on hold for however long it takes. Jon and Kate should seek marriage counseling and God before they continue to dissolve this marriage. As a product of divorce myself, I know how difficult it can be for children……. and the world doesn’t need a front view seat to observe the pain and difficulties that lie ahead.

346. Wendy O'Mara, on June 23rd, 2009 at 5:57 pm Said:

     I really think the whole show needs to be on hold. This young family need their space. I would hope that TLC would stop this show and let one of their other new shows take over. It is the only fair way for this young family. We will come back to this interesting family but right now give them space……..Can”t you see that they are hurting….Back Off…….

347. deedee, on June 24th, 2009 at 8:35 am Said:

     jon and kate doesn”t care about the public they just does the show for the money and kate is a mean person i bet if you see her in public she wouldn”t take a picture with you unless you pay her

348. mAgGiExxx, on June 24th, 2009 at 10:06 pm Said:

     ITS SAD TO HEAR ABOUT THESE TYPES OF THINGS. DIVORCE ALWAYS SEEMS TO HAVE TERRIBLE AFFECTS ON CHILDREN. LETS HOPE THAT THIS DOESNT HAPPEN TO THESE 8 KIDS, THEY DONT DESERVE IT. AS FAR AS FOR JON & KATE, IT SUCKS BECAUSE THEIR BUSINESS WAS PUT OUT THERE. SHIT HAPPENS, ITS TRUE. BUT WHATS WORST THAN YOUR HUSBAND CHEATING ON YOU, & THERES PIXs OF HIM WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.(THAT SUCKS).I DONT BELIEVE IN DIVORCES, MAYBE SOME COUNSELING OR THERAPY MIGHT HELP. IM ON BOTH OF THERE SIDES, 1ST IM A WOMAN, & SHE DOESNT DESERVE THIS, & SECOND, A MAN IS GOING TO BE A MAN, & HE CAN ONLY TAKE SO MUCH CRAP FROM A WOMAN. I DOESNT MAKE IT RIGHT, BUT, IF I WERE HIM, I WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME THING TO..

349. DONT DO IT, on July 21st, 2009 at 11:21 pm Said:

     if you know whats good for your family do not divorce it ruins childrens lives my mom and dad just divorce and it is so bad it really hurts us kid seeing someone else taking our mother or fathers place if are parent is seeing someone do not do no matter what

350. Georgia, on August 5th, 2009 at 9:47 am Said:

     I saw the show that aired about them remodeling the kitchen and Kate still treats Jon like a piece of trash

     WHAT PLANET ARE YOU ON?

     I think Jon was right in leaving her.

351. Laura Knox, on August 20th, 2009 at 4:57 pm Said:

     I feel Jon & Kate are both at fault. Before they try to dissolve their marriage, they should both seek counsling! They should at least TRY for the kids and themselves. Then if counseling does not help them . then get a divorce.Having 8 kids would cause more stress on a marriage than usual. I think Kate has a problem with being a “neat freak” and has to organization and control of the children to make a day run normal. BUT she seems to have to have control over everything, including JON! He is a grown man and does NOT need another mother! BUT I also have no sympathy for JON who seems to be going out with anything and everyone. the only “victims” in this situation are the kids. So if they really love their kids they should at least try marrige counseling and individual couseling also, before they throw in the towel.

352. nikki, on September 2nd, 2009 at 10:54 am Said:

     omg they were bound to get divorced!!!!!! jon does nothing and kates a total !@#$% well thats all i can say its like total maddness,

353. morgan mm, on September 25th, 2009 at 4:49 pm Said:

     i liove jon and kate but i do feel kate was a little to rough on him. but i now do not like jon. wat is he thinking dating a girl that haley. wat is wrong wit him. he needs to get his life together and its time to come bak to reality. i dont care if they continue to stay divorced, but COME ON JON! USE UR BRAIN UR DATING STREET TRASH! IM 14 AND ID MAKE BETTER DECISONS THAN HE IS! AND IF I WERE HIS DUAGHTER I WUD NOT WANT TO SEE HIM AT ALL. I WUD BE PISSED! USE UR BRAIN JON!

354. Readd this, on September 26th, 2009 at 8:27 pm Said:

     Okay, i used to love jon and kate plus 8, i’m sure alot of people did. after all the madness people started to get less interested. it’s life. but seriously, leaving mean comments about jon or kate is childish and really idiotic. Kate did and still does the best she could, Jon well,… he tries!. they are both going throw tuff times and they dont need us (fans) treating them like this. there are no sides to pick, so stop creatizising! I’m 14 years old and i can honestly say all of you are acting retardedly imature them i would! get over yourselves, all jon and kate both need is for all of us to mind our own buisnesses and just see what happens.

355. Michelleann, on October 8th, 2009 at 9:24 pm Said:

     It going to be hard seeing the show go off the air on TLC……My daughter and I used to watch the show.

356. jj, on October 23rd, 2009 at 3:46 pm Said:

     i love this show it shows what happens in real life its just put on tv nobody has a write to judge others on there life no-ones perfict and could some one please tell me when new shows start in sky im british and dont get tlc

357. elçin, on November 9th, 2009 at 8:46 am Said:

     Hi, I like Turkey, and you come out of school after watching the elçin step jon and kate aunt, uncle, you also really like the 8 most of your child hot-car very very sweet of sextuplets from each other all the sugar you all a lot like something the would like to ask how the cookie monkey do, please run very slowly I’m glad if you say you never watch your children too are connected without missing

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